My Ex Blocked Me

[gEngineer]

My ex and I were really good friends after the break up until he asked me back and I realized he only asked me back because the girl he was dating was going to med school.

He never told me about this girl until I found out about it myself. Long story short, we got into a big fight and I told him to delete my number and forget about me. I was so mad that’s why I said it. The next day, he said he wanted to fix things between us before we go our separate ways. I declined and blocked him. After a week, unblock him because I wasn’t mad anymore. I sent him a random saying about how things don’t work out when you are not ready. He tried adding me on facebook after that but i told him I can’t be friends with him yet. Maybe in a year, I told him. I also asked him not to reply to my message so I didn’t have to overthink. After that he blocked my number so as my messenger. I didnt care about it first but now I realize that I really do miss our friendship. I tried adding him on facebook, he never accepted and he never unblocked my messenger.

I feel like he is my soulmate and I’m worried I will never find someone like him in my life. What should I do? How long will it take until I get over him?

[bunnyhabit]

You already burned your bridges with him. Creating a platonic relationship with an ex lover almost never lasts. You have made it worst by shading him then clapping back when he tried to mend the bridge. You need to apologize sincerely for the way you treat him in past and pray for acceptance by him. I believe you will just regret doing so. Find a new soul mate and control your violent reactions to his lifestyle.

[Anthony]

He simply blocked you because your action proved that you don't want him anymore. So, he blocked you to be able to get over you.

In order to get him back you need to give him space for now. After a while you might need to send him a simple text message asking about his well being. Hopefully by then he wouldn't be angry with you anymore.

Good luck!