It's been 2 years since we broke-up with my Girl (on my birthday lol). And currently she has a boyfriend.
Now, she chats me unusually, I think once a month or two. She only wanted to know how am I or how's my life now... Then here's me, responding her chats casually, sometimes I 'seenzoned' her.
(I didn't accept her friend request on Facebook but only on Messenger)
One time, I asked her straightforward, "Why are you messaging me from time to time? It can be the cause of argument with your boyfriend!".
-she responds that her boyfriend didn't know about me and she misses our conversations that have sense (about family-problems, work, future, etc). And she also said when she open-up a conversations like that to her boyfriend, the guy always responds with "you're so emo, drama!".
(BTW before we got into relationship we were close friends from the beginning. So basically I'm her comforter when she shares her dramas in life).
At present, it is still the same situation. But I make a way to end up the conversation immediately but usually I only seenzoned her. Though she always telling me that I'm a 'snub' now, that I've changed.
Even I'm her ex and I don't have the right to advise her, I told her "to breakup her boyfriend, I think you're not happy" (but my approach is like a close friend).
But she only responds that she really love the guy. So I said "Okay. Go on. It's your own life and decision. I'm out of that. Best of luck!"
SO TO MY DEAR FRIENDS HERE. I just want to have opinions about this unusual ex of mine. I really don't get why is she so consistent and persevere in approaching me. Hope you can enlighten me. Thanks a lot.
PS
-We were highscool classmates, but it was onetime on alumni homecoming on our highscool batch when we saw ourselves again and getting to know each other after all the times we graduated in college and settle a job.
-And because of change of work location we have 'Long Distance Relationship' and THE LACK of communication starts that leads to breakup.
-Sorry this take so long. Sorry for my English. This is my first to time to seek advises and opinions about relationship problems on any forums in the internet. Thanks a lot again.
Now, she chats me unusually, I think once a month or two. She only wanted to know how am I or how's my life now... Then here's me, responding her chats casually, sometimes I 'seenzoned' her.
(I didn't accept her friend request on Facebook but only on Messenger)
One time, I asked her straightforward, "Why are you messaging me from time to time? It can be the cause of argument with your boyfriend!".
-she responds that her boyfriend didn't know about me and she misses our conversations that have sense (about family-problems, work, future, etc). And she also said when she open-up a conversations like that to her boyfriend, the guy always responds with "you're so emo, drama!".
(BTW before we got into relationship we were close friends from the beginning. So basically I'm her comforter when she shares her dramas in life).
At present, it is still the same situation. But I make a way to end up the conversation immediately but usually I only seenzoned her. Though she always telling me that I'm a 'snub' now, that I've changed.
Even I'm her ex and I don't have the right to advise her, I told her "to breakup her boyfriend, I think you're not happy" (but my approach is like a close friend).
But she only responds that she really love the guy. So I said "Okay. Go on. It's your own life and decision. I'm out of that. Best of luck!"
SO TO MY DEAR FRIENDS HERE. I just want to have opinions about this unusual ex of mine. I really don't get why is she so consistent and persevere in approaching me. Hope you can enlighten me. Thanks a lot.
PS
-We were highscool classmates, but it was onetime on alumni homecoming on our highscool batch when we saw ourselves again and getting to know each other after all the times we graduated in college and settle a job.
-And because of change of work location we have 'Long Distance Relationship' and THE LACK of communication starts that leads to breakup.
-Sorry this take so long. Sorry for my English. This is my first to time to seek advises and opinions about relationship problems on any forums in the internet. Thanks a lot again.
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