31 weeks pregnant, she left me

[Firsttimedad1788]

Hello. We met last september I am 30, she is 33 and fell head over heals for eachother. Told me she has never met anyone like me. We talked about marriage and having kids together. She has a 4 year old and had split up with her ex almost 1 year prior to us meeting. Her and her son spent almost every day at my house from december until I officially asked her to move in around march. (she wanted to move in just as much as I wanted her to) In april we found out she is pregnant. everything was going great for a couple months. Around august she told me she moved too fast and needed her own space and wasnt sure if she would ever be ready to live with someone again. It was hard but I adjusted, a month later she said she wanted to come back, missed me and was crazy to think we could do this not living together. Everything was good when she came back, but slowly she became distant with me to the point where I asked her whats wrong. She told me her feelings for me have changed and didnt want to be with me anymore. This was last week, she has moved in with her mom.. She has anxiety and depression and is on medication. I am so hurt right now I told her I will be here for her, her son and the baby no matter what and that I think its hormones and I hope everything changes when the baby is born. I love her to death. Has anyone been through this?

[lindatan]

Hello. There are two things I have seen in this situation. First, she might have some non-good experience with her hubby or emotionally still has not moved on. Second is that honestly speaking, a woman's dream is to have a family, husband, and kids. But on her side, she prefers it differently. I do hope it is just hormonal. But one step ahead, if not you may need to talk to her seriously. There is always a reason for any kind of decision. I am amazed at how you serve your love for her. Still, you also need to reserve some love for yourself; this will help you become stronger and confident. As of now observe till she gives birth. Most pregnant women are heavily moody. Like going crazy. I know, I have three children. Let's see the outcome, but slowly dig into the real reason. And always be ready. I hope this helps

[Firsttimedad1788]

She tells me and others there is not one certain thing that made her decide this. I know there is nothing between her ex husband. They were on and off for almost 14 years. I will always love her no matter which way this goes. She has no problem talking to me still, wants me to be there for appointments, and the labour. Just says there is no relationship anymore, feelings have changed and doesnt want to be with me. Her sister told me she did this with her ex alot, they would break up then two weeks later be back together. She told me today she is getting an appartment next month. I still think about how good things were before the pregnancy and even for a little while after. I read old texts from a month ago saying how she loves me, and was even talking about marriage a month ago to someone. Im just hoping so much that this is hormones.

[Scot]

Her feelings for you have probably changed because she's pregnant. Most women tend to suffer from depression when they are pregnant and this always affect their relationship with their spouse.

I'll suggest you continue to treat her nicely and her feelings will return when she has given birth to the baby.