Deeply Confused By The Behaviour Of My Ex Before We Broke Up

[Imminence]

My ex distanced herself from me one week after she put a photo up of us holding hands as her cover photo. She just completely distanced herself. She acted like she wanted to have sex yet at the same time refused to have sex and while she still had interest and sometimes reacted to my affection, afterwards she tried to withdraw. I am deeply confused as to why my ex did this.

It has been months and she still ignores me and will not even talk to me even though we see each other every week. I do not understand this.

I have social problems and she kept pointing out whenever I did something which was socially unacceptable. Throughout the relationship I thought she was doing it purely to help me resolve my social issues however it now seems like she did it because she was either unhappy or because she was trying to exert control over me

[Sammy]

First, you need to find out if she now has a boyfriend. If she does, then she started acting distance because of the new guy.

Also, I'll advice you stop all contact with her. That means, give her space and act as though she isn't part of you. This will make her miss you and might eventually make her want you back.

[Alexa]

I assume when she put a photo of you two holding hands as her cover photo, someone made a negative comment about you. I say this because the problem all started after she put up that photo. The negative comment made her to start distancing herself from you and eventually started disliking you. Generally, women are moved by what they hear.

Anyways, I'll advice you move on and forget about her.

[Imminence]

I assume when she put a photo of you two holding hands as her cover photo, someone made a negative comment about you. I say this because the problem all started after she put up that photo. The negative comment made her to start distancing herself from you and eventually started disliking you. Generally, women are moved by what they hear.

Anyways, I'll advice you move on and forget about her.

That sounds like completely irrational behaviour. How can I control what somebody says about me? I have been bullied my entire life. Even at university I am bullied. If she heard something like that then she should have told me or not believed it because that is what a supportive girlfriend does. You don't break up with someone for reasons like that.

A few days after distancing herself I called her because I didn't understand why she was distancing herself. She deleted the cover photo after that. It is behaviour that makes absolutely no sense to me.