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ying to understand my friend. We both want different things out of our friendship. So I respected what he wanted. I didn’t try to change his mind or persuade him. I just accepted and respected it. He has not done the same. He has been disrespectful to me with his comments and accusing of man men and he got me figured out. In all 5 years we have talked he has never been this way. So I let it slide thinking he wa just upset so we are friends on Facebook and when I post pictures of my kids he like the post sometimes. So I thought we were ok. So I called him the other day and asked him could he change my tires. He said yes. He said I thought you were in Tennessee I said I got back yesterday. I took the car there and I pulled up and he didn’t even speak he just started working on the car. So I spoke. So then he said it would be $50 he normally don’t charge . So I asked for a hug and he told me no the first he has said that. I said why he said I don’t hug platonic friends it’s to touchy feel it’s temptation and his penis would get hard. WHAT? All that from a friendly hug . I am confused you hug people at church people hug strangers.... then he asked how I got to Tennessee he know not in my car. I said yeah a car.. he said oh yeah the pathfinder which my current man has ( me and him have been off and on and he has been in the picture and he knows off and on) then I said I got there by car he claims he saw me on the interstate in the pathfinder because he was coming back as well .... really he was just trying to see who I went to Tennessee with. I felt like he really didn’t care or have feelings for me anymore. But judging by his reaction and lying about seeing me on the interstate maybe he cares and more feelings than he is letting on. But he is not coming and asking what can I do to make things work he not giving a reason to stay. I guess ego and pride is a hell of a drug. I have even told him I love him and care about him via text before all of this .
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