He is confusing me

[Tapashya]

my ex bf left me and he agreed to be friend with me. But I applied no contact rule cause I still love him. Now after four months he messaged me
that he wants to talk to me
But he didn't tell me and said I won't understand..
He said ,"we are not even friends anymore"
I said," I don't think it is good to disturb you."
He said ," I am not busy anywhere I go through my loneliness daily"
I said ,"ok"
He asked ," but these days you are busy with your new bf"
I am still single but I replied only ok..just to confuse him he tried to let conversation get long but I didn't let him do it ,I answerd short and sweet . I decided not to give him details of my life and let the things mysterious so he can again get interested in me.
He messaged me two times in 15 days at 10 to 12 am after four months.
Now after that day of talk he didn't message me
Pls tell me what I do and what he is thinking.

[hjhollywood]

I think if you want to get back together then the period of NO CONTACT should be over and you should talk to him honestly. The relationship can be rebuilt if you both want it but you can't bring the baggage of the past into it. You must start with a clean slate and be honest otherwise move on and find someone new. Good luck!

[bunnyhabit]

I think your tactics were wise. ex's can never friendzone because of pride and intimate background. sit tight and let him earn your attention after dumping you. so far he is just weeping self pity and prying into your current lifestyle. he needs to show remorse for dropping you and how he will change in the future. then you can decide if you want to walk down a old path again. let him bounce the ball back don't cave easy.