Hi all,
I'll try to keep this as short as poss.
I love(d) my boyfriend so much. He supported me through the grief of losing my father. We had such a beautiful love story. I never thought that I could feel this way about someone - basically all the clichés.
I went out to work in another country and he came to visit me. I just knew that this was going to be something big.
Anyway my dad died and that hit me pretty hard. My boyfriend really pushed us to live together and I decided to accept. However, 7-8 months in, I find out that he's messaging another woman on FB. I was so shocked (still am) and moved all my stuff out. We've not had any contact and it's nearly 4 months later. I can't seem to get over this and it really hurts. Honestly I've tried everything. I don't check his social media or anything. I don't look at pictures. I've started exercising and have lost nearly 50 pounds which I put on after my dad died. I got a new job and have joined dating apps.
I still can't seem to move on from this sadness. I miss him so much. I can't believe I ended up meaning so little to him. He has made no attempts to see if I'm OK. Just continually watches my insta stories. After everything we went through I can't believe he through it all away for a few fb messages. I don't actually know what to do.
I'll try to keep this as short as poss.
I love(d) my boyfriend so much. He supported me through the grief of losing my father. We had such a beautiful love story. I never thought that I could feel this way about someone - basically all the clichés.
I went out to work in another country and he came to visit me. I just knew that this was going to be something big.
Anyway my dad died and that hit me pretty hard. My boyfriend really pushed us to live together and I decided to accept. However, 7-8 months in, I find out that he's messaging another woman on FB. I was so shocked (still am) and moved all my stuff out. We've not had any contact and it's nearly 4 months later. I can't seem to get over this and it really hurts. Honestly I've tried everything. I don't check his social media or anything. I don't look at pictures. I've started exercising and have lost nearly 50 pounds which I put on after my dad died. I got a new job and have joined dating apps.
I still can't seem to move on from this sadness. I miss him so much. I can't believe I ended up meaning so little to him. He has made no attempts to see if I'm OK. Just continually watches my insta stories. After everything we went through I can't believe he through it all away for a few fb messages. I don't actually know what to do.
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