I have been married to my wife next month 1 year. We have been together for 17- years and have two kids. I just found out she was trying to hook up with my friend/ roommate when we had just started having a relationship. So I thought we were in a relationship. She said we were not in a relationship. In the beginning we went on a camping trip with friends. I couldn't make it the first day. I arrived the second day. She slept in a tent with my friend/ roommate. She said nothing happened; it was his fault for not trying. Fast forward a few months. She moved in with me and my friend/roommate. We lived in the apartment for 3 months until we got our own place. Fast forward 17 years later two kids and married. I JUST FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS. She is saying it’s not a big deal. She had no feelings for him. I feel like there were feeling due to wanting to hook up....... I think it is weird/wrong living with us. If you wanted to hook up!!!
I feel sick. Betrayed/cheated on/lied to/bamboozled.
I feel like OUR life would have taken a different route. I would have never pursued her if I would have known about the (wanting to hook up)
Am I wrong for having these feelings? Am I overreacting?
I feel sick. Betrayed/cheated on/lied to/bamboozled.
I feel like OUR life would have taken a different route. I would have never pursued her if I would have known about the (wanting to hook up)
Am I wrong for having these feelings? Am I overreacting?
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