Hi everyone, this is more about an odd fallout with an old long time friend.
I have known this friend who is female since school. She used to have a crush on me.
She reconnected with me and started messaging me nearly everyday for nearly a year and occasionally called me. She did this using Facebook messenger. She is married with 2 children which I respected.
One day we were having a casual chat about cars and then out of nowhere she said
“ i’m not doing this anymore”.
I asked what and she said “ Talking on messenger, we are not on the same wavelength”. This was totally random. She wouldn’t explain what she was talking about. Especially the part about being on the same wavelength because we have been speaking everyday for a year and always got on really well.
She said " I'm gone after this, it freaks me out too much".
Anyway she unfriended and blocked me which really confused me! Two days later she re-added me and started messaging me again. I told her that I didn’t appreciate her cryptic behaviour and randomly falling out with me without explanation and she apologized.
One night she wanted to ring me and 12:30pm at night and I was just ready for bed. She called and we spoke to a while and she hung up on me half way through a very casual conversation about holidays etc. She deleted Facebook and messenger but she has my phone number.
I am baffled what to make of all this. Her behaviour is very erratic lately.
What do you make of this?
Edit. Its very important that I note that she was messaging me first 90% of the time.
I have known this friend who is female since school. She used to have a crush on me.
She reconnected with me and started messaging me nearly everyday for nearly a year and occasionally called me. She did this using Facebook messenger. She is married with 2 children which I respected.
One day we were having a casual chat about cars and then out of nowhere she said
“ i’m not doing this anymore”.
I asked what and she said “ Talking on messenger, we are not on the same wavelength”. This was totally random. She wouldn’t explain what she was talking about. Especially the part about being on the same wavelength because we have been speaking everyday for a year and always got on really well.
She said " I'm gone after this, it freaks me out too much".
Anyway she unfriended and blocked me which really confused me! Two days later she re-added me and started messaging me again. I told her that I didn’t appreciate her cryptic behaviour and randomly falling out with me without explanation and she apologized.
One night she wanted to ring me and 12:30pm at night and I was just ready for bed. She called and we spoke to a while and she hung up on me half way through a very casual conversation about holidays etc. She deleted Facebook and messenger but she has my phone number.
I am baffled what to make of all this. Her behaviour is very erratic lately.
What do you make of this?
Edit. Its very important that I note that she was messaging me first 90% of the time.
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