How do i get my ex to want me back

[Bribrimonette12]

I want my ex back so bad i cry everyday i see him ever week he has my phone i called him once but he doesn't want to talk to me but i really love him and i really want back ny friends said forget about but i can't i just want him to want be back so me and him can be together again how do i do that?

[John]

You are feeling that your world has just ended. You're in serious despair and you think there is no hope left of ever making him love you again. It's not unusual that you should feel this way, but don't worry, you've come to the right place. There are particular techniques which will help you to find out how to make your man love you again. These techniques are not as difficult as they first seem either, a lot of it requires understanding the male psyche. So let us get going so that you can win him back faster.

It is a little known secret that 90% of broken relationships are reconcilable and there is no reason why you cannot be the same as these other couples. So where do you you start? Hang on a minute girl, don't go rushing around like a bull in a china shop. With your emotions as high as they are you might say things you don't mean, so calm yourself down first. Now you have a bit of learning to do so you must first sit back and think of where your relationship went wrong.

Did your relationship lack passion?

Had your work become more important than him?

Did you think that your appearance was not important any longer?

Write down everything that you think may have led to his decision to break up with you. There is no point lying to yourself at this point, be brutally honest with yourself if you are to increase your chances of winning him back again.

If we're going to make your ex long for you the way he used to, we need to consider what it was that your ex found attractive about you when you first met. Was it your self-confident manner? The way you laughed at his jokes? The way your hips swayed when you walked? (Yes ladies, guys like it when you sway your hips!) Cast your mind back to the day you first met because you need to try and remember what it was that first drew him to you. The laws of physical attraction are deep and mysterious. I'm sure you will have heard people say "she just has something about her."

The next step is to apply some self control and conquer those feelings. It's very important that he doesn't see you crying hysterically, men can't deal with it and they run a mile. This is not how men deal with their feelings, especially not in front of someone. They will respect you a lot more if you can control yourself and be calm. Even better, they will not expect it and you will catch them off guard. This will in turn create an air of mystery about you and he will start to see you differently, asking himself if he made the right decision in breaking up with you. Reverse psychology is a very powerful thing ladies!

Now it's time to pay attention to personal development on the emotional, physical and intellectual level. If you're wanting to be an attractive person again, you will have to do something interesting like take up a brand new activity or change your profession. Your physical appearance is important too, you can't afford to let yourself go. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror, is there room for improvement? Get yourself to a health club or join a weight reduction class.