Pls help me

[faye mitchell]

my ex boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. and we haven't spoke for 1 month and a half. but after talking to him yesterday only to find out that he was kinda with his EX again. like they wer seeing each other again. which i dont really expect him to do so soon. ( and its not his personality, knowing him for 1year and 4months living in one house)

[LoveAdmin]

If your boyfriend left you for his ex don't try and convince him that he's made the wrong choice. You know he has but trying to convince him of that will only make you look desperate in his eyes. Whenever a woman pleads with a man to take her back or she talks badly about another woman in an effort to win his heart, she devalues herself. You know that you're the superior choice for him so there's no better way to convince him of that then to show him.

Instead of taking the obvious approach by calling him all the time and reminding him of why he left her to begin with, show him what a mistake it was leaving you. The best way to do that is to show your boyfriend that you're mature and emotionally able to handle rejection on a scale like this. It's very hard to accept that your man dumped you and ran back to the woman he was with before he met you, but you do need to accept it in order to get him back. In other words you need to do the opposite of what he's expecting you to do.

Every man is driven by the challenges that present themselves in his life. It's why men are so captivated by sports and it's also why they chase after specific women. If you throw yourself at your boyfriend's mercy and beg him to leave his ex for you, you're killing his attraction for you. However, if you smile sweetly, tell him that you only want the best for him and you jump back into the dating pool, he'll fall over himself trying to win you back. Become the woman he can't have anymore and you'll be the woman he wants. Male psychology has proven that to be the case so use that knowledge to your advantage.