Need my ex to realize his all mistakes.

[Pari]

Hi, I'm feeling very depressed, i was thinking to suicide because I'm totally fedup from life problems. Please do Help me in this matter.
Me nd my ex were in relationship from nov 2015 almost 6 months we had very good days with each other, he was like my Dream boy, but now suddenly he became the worst person,this year he changed totally, he was the person who never saw a girl ,now after breaking up with me, he make new friends and he used to hangout with them, he used to meet girls, and he really don't care for me for my feelings, i had done no contact rule for 3 months, in those 3 months he find new female Friend who's Helping him to get move on from me, he blocked me from many months he don't want to talk with me, yesterday i cut my hand and gave him picture he said do not give me i don't care ,do not create problems again, get lost, I'm very much depressed please help me, please I'm not able to forget him, Every second he's on my mind. Please help

[Richard]

Understanding how to make him realize what he lost is all about becoming the woman of his dreams. You already know what he adores most in a woman and what he finds irresistibly hot. You're going to use that knowledge to lure him back in. So the first obvious step you need to be taking is to focus on transforming yourself into the woman he'll come running back to.

Some people will suggest that one of the best ways to get over the pain of being dumped is revenge. Revenge isn't helpful in any sense and it's even less helpful if you're trying to get a man to regret breaking your heart. However, you can use some of the same motivation you'd feel if you were seeking revenge to get him to regret his actions. Getting yourself into better physical shape is just one example. You certainly don't have to change your entire appearance just to get a man to come back to you, but getting in better shape will help boost your self confidence which will prove incredibly helpful. Even just taking up some exercise on a regular basis will do wonders for you.

You also have to show him that life without him is full and rich for you. If a man sees that his ex is wallowing around in a pool of self pity he's going to walk on by. What man wants to be with a woman who feels sorry for herself? He'd much rather be with one who has so much self confidence that she can tackle anything and still have a smile on her face and a zest for life. Let your ex see that with or without him you're embracing each day to its fullest. If he sees that, he'll soon realize that he lost a dynamic, competent and quality partner.

[Mabel]

Are you feeling helpless and frustrated because you think your boyfriend is being heartless and cold and does not seem to be sorry for cheating on you? Well there is no use moping about it - here is what you should do to make him feel sorry for bringing you so much heartache!

Give him the cold shoulder
Stop hanging around him with that "I'm feeling sorry for myself" look on your face. It will do nothing for you! The thing is that you should get him to realize how bad he's been. You should start by ignoring him and giving him the cold shoulder. This will probably surprise him and he will wonder if his behavior has made him lose you.

Make new friends
So you have been neglecting yourself completely since you have been with him. You catered to his needs etc but see where it got you! It's time to get out and make new friends - friends who will appreciate you and treat you right. This will also surprise him.

Start perking up and enjoy yourself
He probably expects you to sit at home crying your heart out and perhaps that is exactly what you did for a while. It is time to go out and have a ball! Join a club and take up some new hobbies and activities that are enjoyable and at the same time keep you busy! He will be irked to see you so occupied with something else!

Be magnanimous
Once you have started enjoying life all over again, speak to him or write him a letter stating that you forgive him and would like to be just friends. Let him know that you are genuine and don't hold a grudge. This will break him and he will begin to feel sorry for treating you bad.

Don't say no to dates
If your new friend wants to date you, perhaps you should give it a try. Make sure you really like him and are not dating on the rebound. This will make your ex feel rotten. He will regret losing you.

Look better than before
This will really make him sit up! Take great trouble to look gorgeous and sexy. It could be that you allowed yourself to get out of shape. Join a gym and get back into shape as quickly as possible. Once you're there - flaunt your new look! He is going to be sorry he messed up!

Keep your distance
No matter how he tries to get in touch with you again - keep your distance and let him watch you having a wonderful time and looking so good. Smile, say hello and even wear his favorite color - but don't get too close! This is a sure way to rub salt in his wounds and at the same time make him sorry!