Break up and missng

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We broke up about 3 years before hardly saw her 3times since I still miss her badly ND have messed up own life completely , just want to get her back but have no idea about ND I think she's with some1 else now but I want her only

[LoveAdmin]

Losing someone you love is never an easy thing. You have invested yourself in the relationship only to find it ending for reasons you simply cannot comprehend. Unfortunately one common reason for breaking up is one of the couple being involved with another person. It very well may be that the guys are guiltier of this than the ladies. Regardless, you have experienced a break up and are now trying to deal with the consequences.

Some people have a good instinct for things. If you have a feeling your partner has been fooling around behind your back you may be right. There are some girls that just do not catch the clues their partner is cheating and end up getting hurt going through a breakup.

After breaking up, one of two things could happen. You might try to think of ways to get even with your ex or you could find out how to get back together with them. If you want to take revenge on your ex the first choice is yours, otherwise you want to see if it is possible to save your relationship.

You found that after breaking up with your ex you could never truly let them go. Even after all you went through there is still part of you that loves your ex. When some time has passed you realize that you would like having them back in your life because of the happiness you once had.

Six months to one year is a long time after breaking up to not have moved on. But if you do want to get back with your ex it's time to make your move. If the two of you have remained friends or at least kept in touch it will make it easier for you. The ability to put the romance back into the equation will make it easier to pull off since you have not been total strangers all that time.

You can never treat your ex like you would your friends; your connection was much more complex. If or when your ex makes contact with you, you must always have a nice attitude and be nice. You want them to see you are the same person they knew when you first met, not what they remember before the breakup. You also do not want to show that you have been affected by the bad relationship during the breakup.

Most important is you do not want to go after him aggressively, that will only chase him away. What you want to do is challenge them by tempting their romantic ego. Don't do this by being flirtatious, this won't work. Show them you have a life and are doing just fine now. If you have a chance to talk with them avoid discussing the bad side of the relationship. Focus on the good time the two of you had so they will feel as if you do not regret the past and might be willing to start the relationship over.

When you have been apart for up to one year you need to be the one your ex fell in love back in the beginning. If there was something your ex did not like about you, something that annoyed them, try not to do that anymore. Do not try to be someone you are not just to lure them back, just improve on who you really are. If they truly loved you before they will love you no matter how you look or how you are as a person, just don't fake it.

The difference between men and women are women lean more towards the right guy for any time. Men believe in the right time for the right girl. If a situation is not called for do not push the issue. If you try to push the issue you may end up losing them for good so tread lightly in your pursuit. Take your time, when things look right show them your interests in giving the relationship another go. Doing it this way you have a better chance of having success.

[Gloria]

It is very possible that poor communication between the two of you is considered to be the real reason behind the break up. In addition, this is also considered to be the root cause for many broken relationships out there.

If you want to get an ex girlfriend back by trying to open the lines of communication with her as mentioned, then honesty should be your best policy. Remember, trying to get her back by using dirty tricks is not going to help. Even if you can get her back by using those tricks, but she will break up with you again, sooner or later.

However, you really need to be patient in order to try this honest communication method with your ex girlfriend. Just keep in mind that once you can communicate with her, then it is very possible that your situation will keep getting better.

In addition, in case that the problem in your relationship took a long time to develop, then you should understand that it will take some times to get it fixed. Even you can open the lines of communication with your ex girlfriend, but don't expect that things will get better overnight. However, if you can communicate with her, then you are considered to be on the right path to get an ex girlfriend back. At least, you are trying to fix the problem in the relationship and you need to make sure that the same problem will not happen again.