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[Kimdube444]

I'm Kim and I'm 33 I'm very confused about his sistuarion wothban exnim having dgonto by post I. The breakup section. Yes me and him dated on 04-05 some of the relation was long distance cause of he rehab bit other then that it was face to face but . he has kept I touch since the break up but justvrecebtly I know he just came our of a serious relationship but that ended it he came clean with our situation on line in he past Twp years we have exchanged number but only talked on the phone since his past march then I got his email he wrote I .august 17th I responded to I. Baclnin October then his sister got his Facebook and told me he was in a rehab hospital and not to bug him and her ever against I know I may of message IP by contacting her and his aunt and best friend but he seemed o. the phone we were OK but he never told.me hen he wanted nothing to do with me but online he I. the past three weeks he has called me.names and talking bad about me to his friends and family bit won't tell.me but what he dontell.me was to leave.him a fuck alone I r rally don't understand whyniheis no mean.
one thing to me when we did talk.on the phoenhe way he has changed was I. A.glbad way and isn't the right guy to date right now I'm really don't want us I the dating situation because he lives in Ohio and I'm I. Flirida

[Caleb]

People do go into relationships that goes beyond the immediate distance they are in and when there is trouble in relationships like these, the problem is how to make your ex boyfriend want you back even if he is far away.

o Contact Rules

Okay, since you are far away from each other, it's easy enough not to be constantly there by his side. But No Contact Rules in this situation is really hard to do since if you do that, some guys would just forget that you exist.

The right way to contact your ex would be to send out an email once in a while to ask how they are doing. Remember to be casual to them and don't make the impression that you are trying to get his attention.

You can also ask about subjects that are common in both of you. Example if you are both gamers, you could ask about his character or if he have heard this latest game. Just say something that he'd be interested in but won't make him feel your pushing yourself to him.

o Social Networking Rules

Don't ever post in your social sites that you are miserable. Not only will that be annoying to people who are in your friend's list but your ex might see it. He would think that you are pathetic for saying to the world how the two of you have broken up.

If you need to express sadness over your break up, go and talk to your friends in real life. You should be casual in your social pages and let him get the impression that you are okay and you are happy with your life.

These two are important tips you must take to heart because they are sure ways how to make your ex boyfriend back despite the distance. You can even apply then even if you are not in a long distance relationship.

[Kimdube444]

Thanks for the advice so now its my turn to ice me out even though he blankly said leave him alone. . do u think it's only because he's problems he's going through with his additions and DRG habit I just saw bow he's out of rehab and on the streets saying either he's a piece of shit or that others are treats him like xrap

[Olivia]

Let's face it. When it comes to learning how to make your ex boyfriend miss you the aspect that most of us struggle with is trying to stay away from our ex long enough that he can miss us. We're so very different than men are and when we're thrust into a very emotional situation all we want to do is fix it as soon as possible. That's why we often resort to doing things like calling our ex several times a day. We want to rebuild a connection and the quickest way to accomplish that seems to be to get him to talk. It's not though. One important thing to remember when you are trying to get your ex to realize what he's lost in you is that it's not going to happen today or tomorrow. You need to be patient and you need a plan. Once you've got those two in hand you'll be unstoppable.

First things first. Sit down and have a pep talk with yourself. You're going to need to muster up all the inner strength you can find when you are working out your plan of how to make your ex boyfriend miss you. You have to be willing and able to separate yourself from him for a few weeks. Cutting off all communication with a man you desperately love is going to be the hardest challenge you ever faced, but it's all about the end result. You need to promise yourself that regardless of how weak and vulnerable you feel you won't reach for the phone to call him and you won't go over to his place. You need to create distance and that means not talking to him at all for at least a couple of weeks.

There are a few things you can do to make the time pass quickly. Enlisting the help of a few friends is always a great idea. We've all been through break ups so your girlfriends will have the empathy you need. They can be your cheering section and they'll offer support if you ask. Connect with a close friend and explain to her that you may need to call her when you feel the urge to call your ex creeping up. Also, now may be the ideal time to take a mini vacation with some friends or go visit family. Anything at all that you can do to separate yourself from reminders of your ex will be so beneficial to you.

It won't take much more than a few days for your ex boyfriend to begin missing you. Even after a very difficult break up, when one partner suddenly disappears, the other notices. He'll at first wonder if you're just busy. After more time passes he'll realize that you're not going to be chasing him anymore, and that's when the dynamic of the relationship between you two will shift. When he's confronted with the reality that he may have lost you for good, he'll start to reconsider whether or not the break up was what he really needed or wanted.

[Kimdube444]

I know my situation seems crazy we haven't sent each other I person since he chose to break up butt he moved away and blew me off he did recently told me he didn't want me to go with him and drag me down I. His downward spiral with his problems do u hibk he did by putting me I. He friends zone

[Zinok]

He sounds like a loser who mistreats you.
You don't need that in your life. Block his number and try to move on.

[Kimdube444]

Thank good I don't have a number to reach him at when I actually asked him for a phone he used the excise he had one but he can't give it out cause it will out of service for a long time