I think my relationship with foreign girlfriend is falling out.

[hopefullman]

I think my relationship with foreign girlfriend is falling out. I need advice to save it. Please!!

My job has been too demanding and I couldn’t give her the time that she deserves. I’ve missed Skype dates and even forget to communicate with her sometimes. I feel like I’m being unfair to her. Am I?


She never complains to me about the situation but I see it in those half smiles and forced nods that she’s really affected by it. How do I salvage our relationship? I want to show her that I value this relationship just as much as she does. I’m planning to visit her in person to make it up to her. I think I deserve a little vacation too. Do you think it’s worth travelling?


I really need advice on how I could keep my relationship from falling out. I love her and I want to be with her. I’ll do anything to save this relationship. I need all the help there is. Please give some advice to help me out.I’m currently in a situation where I’m desperate for a legit advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for two and a half years. Everything was fine between in us. We’ve had our ups and downs in our time together but it wasn’t nothing we couldn’t sort out.


Lately, I noticed that our ‘spark’ is starting to dwindle down.


I could see how hard she’s trying to make things work between us. When I first met her on A Foreign Affair, I was smitten right away by her humor and good looks. We got along from the moment we started talking, but now things seemed to change.

[Zinok]

Well, start showing her the attention and time she deserves then.
I can't tell you if it's worth travelling over, but if you feel strongly about her then consider it, but if you think it's just going to fizzle out you're probably better off keeping your money or taking a solo trip. Solo trips are great.

[Vivian]

Saving a relationship can be a challenge, and truly, it needs a lot of effort to do it, especially if you and your partner have already gone through a lot, and especially if there is infidelity between the two of you.

Although there may be no single magic that works in fixing all our relationship problems, but there are however ways that can help you iron out your problems and at least save your relationship from falling apart. Here are some tips on how to save your relationship that you may find useful.

- Show love by giving time to your partner. One of the most common things that can break relationships is the lack of time for each other. If you want to show your partner that you love him or her, you have to make sure you give a part of your time to her. It does not mean you have to have dinner dates everyday - even by simple and deep conversations, you can show your partner that he or she is important to you. Exercising together, enjoying coffee together, of even cuddling together in the sofa may be little things that you tend to ignore each day, but even how little they may be, remembering them once in a while can greatly help a lot in saving your relationship from dwindling down.

- Do not be abusive. Being abusive most often is a reason for failing relationships. Of course, nobody wants to stay and live with an abusive partner. In your part, you have to avoid being abusive as well if you want to learn how to save your relationship from falling apart.

- Deal with the problems of the relationship. Usually, ignoring the problems rather than tackling it can be damaging in the end. If you and your partner are having problems with the relationship, open yourself in accepting and talking about your problems. This way, you will find solutions and answers as early as possible. Keep in mind too that unresolved issues and concerns can add 'fuel' to future arguments and quarrels, and for sure, you don't want to make your misunderstandings go bigger and bigger until it reaches its peak when one of you wants to give up the working on the relationship.

- Learn how to communicate effectively. Miscommunication or lack of good and effective communication often bring about some strains in the relationship and are often the root causes of misunderstandings and unsettled differences. Although easier said than done, working on making your communication lines open with your partner can indeed help a lot in saving your relationship from possible breakups and failures.

Of course, there is no such perfect relationship or relationships without quarrels, misunderstandings and some mistakes committed by you or your partner, but the key in learning how to save your relationship is learning how to show that you love your partner. When you love, honesty, understanding, kindness, loyalty will then follow - which are indeed important in building successful relationships.

[stephcoet46]

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