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First off, im new here and not sure if im in the right place for this kind of topic.. I apologize if im not in the right place. Anyway, My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and we been together for a good 3/4 months. We talked a lot online and it has been great! till her father had a heart attack and been hospitalized. She doesn't have a great relationship with her father and she only see him 2/3 times a year. the day before she found out about her father passing.. we kinda had a little disagreement but we did made up the next day and then she told me about her father passing. Now ever since that day shes kind of been distant. I know shes got stuff to do like moving back to her mums and sorting out what she wants to do in life but since her father passed away.. she never text me and we never talk as much anymore.. I had spoken to her about it and she said with all thats going on she needed abit of time for herself and she does not want to worry about me as shes got a lot of things going on. Ive been understanding and been giving her space and lately we spoke and shes mentioned that when she told me about her father passing I instantly changed it and talked about my father passing away last year. Now i can admit that i dont do well with people dying or people going through this kind of grief, till today I dont know what to feel about my own father passing. I feel as if i have let her down and its kinda killing me inside. I do love her and all i want to do is be there for her but with being LDR it makes it a bit complicated.
I dont know what to do atm.. I dunno how to approach this, I dont wanna lose her but Im scared that Id do something stupid or try too hard and mess everything up. She still says she loves me and replies she loves me too when I say I love you. Im just confused. Any advice/opinion or questions feel free to just throw it in there and Thank you
First off, im new here and not sure if im in the right place for this kind of topic.. I apologize if im not in the right place. Anyway, My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and we been together for a good 3/4 months. We talked a lot online and it has been great! till her father had a heart attack and been hospitalized. She doesn't have a great relationship with her father and she only see him 2/3 times a year. the day before she found out about her father passing.. we kinda had a little disagreement but we did made up the next day and then she told me about her father passing. Now ever since that day shes kind of been distant. I know shes got stuff to do like moving back to her mums and sorting out what she wants to do in life but since her father passed away.. she never text me and we never talk as much anymore.. I had spoken to her about it and she said with all thats going on she needed abit of time for herself and she does not want to worry about me as shes got a lot of things going on. Ive been understanding and been giving her space and lately we spoke and shes mentioned that when she told me about her father passing I instantly changed it and talked about my father passing away last year. Now i can admit that i dont do well with people dying or people going through this kind of grief, till today I dont know what to feel about my own father passing. I feel as if i have let her down and its kinda killing me inside. I do love her and all i want to do is be there for her but with being LDR it makes it a bit complicated.
I dont know what to do atm.. I dunno how to approach this, I dont wanna lose her but Im scared that Id do something stupid or try too hard and mess everything up. She still says she loves me and replies she loves me too when I say I love you. Im just confused. Any advice/opinion or questions feel free to just throw it in there and Thank you
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