Help me understand this girl

[Dardoch]

So i've met this new girl on tinder like 2 months ago. We used to chat every single day for like a month before we finally met 3 times. (she lives quite far so..). The thing is, she went to another country like 3 weeks ago to earn some money. She was planning to stay there for 2 months. We were still getting in contact with each other every single day, i usually called her twice a week too and we had great converstations even though she admitted that she feels quite depressed there and is usually really sad/in a bad mood. But the thing is: when i messaged her 3 days ago, she just randomly replied with: "we can't talk anymore, please do not message me anymore". I got really confused since i really liked this girl and i asked her what's wrong. She just told me that, every time she talked on phone with me, she felt like she was getting really attached to me and she doesn't want it. She also said: "i will message you myself when i can but it might take a long long time". I just wished her good luck and that's how it ended.. I feel really sad since we used to talk for like 2 straight months, almost every day.. The 3 dates we had were also great, in a romantic case too. So i really can't tell why she decided to cut all the contact with me..

Any opinions appreciated. Thank you!

[Damian]

I think she's afraid of commitment. She didn't expect to fall in love with you, and she just realized she's falling in love with you. Therefore, she's trying to stop that from happening. However, I will tell you that she can't fight it for long, she will definitely come back to you.

[Rachael]

I think you should respect her wish and don't contact her. I'm sure she loves you, so she will definitely contact you again. She only wants time to re-evaluate her decision.

[richey]

i don't believe either of the respondents is correct. People who want to be with you and "love you" don't throw you away and say "don't ever talk to me again" and disappear. That's just NOT how it happens. So something happened. Either she met somebody else, an ex- came back into the picture, etc. The only thing you can do is give her space.. text a quick "hey.. just wanted to say as you crossed my mind.. hope you're doing well" every now and then (meaning every few weeks maybe.. no more than that). And if she ever responds back to you again, then there are possibilities (as her current situation dissolves). But get zero response a few times doing this.. yeah.. time to let go.

doesn't matter WHY it happened, just that it did. Sorry it didn't turn out the way you wanted for now.

[markmitchell29]

I think you should give her some space and respect her wish ... if she "comes back" don't let her go