My Girlfriend Says She Loves me But She don't find any connection between us

[anish]

Hello, I am in Long Distance Relationship since we started loving each other. Now we're having issues in our relationship. Few days ago my girlfriend told me she don't feel any connection between us. My girlfriend is having anxiety attacks and taking depression meds. she works as a news reporter and of course she has lots of work pressure.she don't have much time to talk with me neither i can force her. we had a sex like 8 months ago and we used to do sexting and other stuffs. 5 months ago she stopped doing this and i didn't force her in anything i waited for the right time.
Now she's saying she don't feel any connection between us and i never felt that way. i always felt connected with her. physically yeah we are far but i'm the only person who can understand her. i know she's having trouble with depression and i have to listen her and she's asking me for space like breaking up. she wants to end our 2 years relationship but i don't wanna lose her i love her so much and i want to help her with her depression. i don't want to let her go in this situation. she loves me too. i don't know why is this even happening? i can't work and i can't focus on anything.
help me please i really need advice. Right now i even can't think of anything. i told her my decision for now is "i won't leave you". our situation is getting worse but i want her back. I can't even meet her and she's saying not to come she don't even have time to meet me.
how can i help her and help myself ? I can't even meet her nor get much time to talk
Is she saying all these because of her depression?
Is there anyway I can get her back and would you have any advice on how with a person with such a condition.

i always ask myself what did i do to deserve this. i know it's not her fault too but we are facing all these. Thanks for listening

[Scot]

I don't think this has anything to do with her depression. People fall out of love everyday, and it's something that's natural and has nothing to do with depression.

Now, that she has fallen out of love, I'll advice you give her space. Trying to beg and plead for her to stay with you will simply push her further away, and you might eventually lose her for good. So, the best thing to do is to give her space and time, and she'll begin to miss you soon and eventually fall in love with you again.

[anish]

yeah we are on break now. i gave her space and i'm being patience . Thanks for your suggestion scot

[Gloria]

If your girlfriend stopped loving you, it's up to you to determine when and why that happened. It's obviously impossible to pinpoint the exact moment that she fell out of love but consider whether there was time when you could feel her start to slip away from you. Perhaps you two had a major disagreement or you started to take her for granted. Something changed the dynamic so dramatically that she felt the need to pull back. Once you identify what you believe that is, it's important to apologize for it.

Be sincere when you tell her that you want to make amends. Let her know that you have deep regrets and if you could do things over, you'd definitely do them differently. Although this can't erase what's happened in the past, it can set the foundation for a future that is free of all the pain from your break up.

You also have to show her that you're a changed man now. You can't expect your girlfriend to fall back in love with you if nothing is different. Work on becoming a better person. Focus on the qualities that you know she wants most in a partner. If you can transform yourself into her ideal man, she'll open her heart back up.

You absolutely must be patient if you want to get your girlfriend back in love with you. You can't rush her by giving her ultimatums or trying to guilt her into taking you back. Instead you have to look at it as a new journey towards a renewed relationship. Start by forging forward as friends. Become the best friend you can to her and in time she'll start to see you as someone she can trust and depend on. Once that happens, you can then pursue the romance again.

[anish]

Really appreciate your advice. Thanks