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I met my fiancee online 11 months ago. I'm from the UK, she's from the Philippines.
She's a quiet, reserved girl. Not from a "bar girl" background. Doesn't smoke, drink, do drugs or mix with the wrong sorts.
I have been to see her four times, for one to two weeks at a time.
We voice, video and text chatted every day, multiple times, without fail. I have met her parents multiple times, had countless discussions about our future and got engaged 6 months ago.
I love her with all of my heart, and I was convinced by her actions and statements that she felt the same for me.
Since we met we have been collating documents for applying for a fiance settlement visa so she can join me in the UK, and we can marry. She has passed all her English tests, medical tests etc, and we recently received the amazing news that her visa was approved. We were both incredibly happy.
But before I got chance to finalise the flights with her, as to when I will fly out to be with her on her journey to the UK, she suddenly disappeared. No Facebook posts. My FB messenger messages never land. She's offline on Skype. She’s not checking her email (we have a shared account so I can see if she logs in from her location). It's like she's just thrown her phone into the sea and cut me off.
She has all my various contact details on a printed document I gave her a short while ago, which she keeps with her at all times, so unless she'd lost her phone and her purse, she'd still have a way to contact me. But even then, she could just ask her brothers or sisters to drop me a message on Facebook.
I tried to contact her sister, who she lives with, but FB indicates that she’s blocked me. My fiancee and her sister had a big fall-out only a few days ago, so blocking me may have been a result of that, so nothing definitive there.
Apart from postal addresses, I have no other contact details for her family. She could be dead for all I know, I just don't know what to think
It's now been around 40 hours since her last message. Which may not sound like a lot on the face of it, but for 11 months, apart from the time she had chicken pox, we haven't gone a waking hour without being in touch.
I feel devastated. I was convinced she loved me and that our lives were about to truly start. It's unlike her to just go quiet.
I don't know what to do.
She's a quiet, reserved girl. Not from a "bar girl" background. Doesn't smoke, drink, do drugs or mix with the wrong sorts.
I have been to see her four times, for one to two weeks at a time.
We voice, video and text chatted every day, multiple times, without fail. I have met her parents multiple times, had countless discussions about our future and got engaged 6 months ago.
I love her with all of my heart, and I was convinced by her actions and statements that she felt the same for me.
Since we met we have been collating documents for applying for a fiance settlement visa so she can join me in the UK, and we can marry. She has passed all her English tests, medical tests etc, and we recently received the amazing news that her visa was approved. We were both incredibly happy.
But before I got chance to finalise the flights with her, as to when I will fly out to be with her on her journey to the UK, she suddenly disappeared. No Facebook posts. My FB messenger messages never land. She's offline on Skype. She’s not checking her email (we have a shared account so I can see if she logs in from her location). It's like she's just thrown her phone into the sea and cut me off.
She has all my various contact details on a printed document I gave her a short while ago, which she keeps with her at all times, so unless she'd lost her phone and her purse, she'd still have a way to contact me. But even then, she could just ask her brothers or sisters to drop me a message on Facebook.
I tried to contact her sister, who she lives with, but FB indicates that she’s blocked me. My fiancee and her sister had a big fall-out only a few days ago, so blocking me may have been a result of that, so nothing definitive there.
Apart from postal addresses, I have no other contact details for her family. She could be dead for all I know, I just don't know what to think
It's now been around 40 hours since her last message. Which may not sound like a lot on the face of it, but for 11 months, apart from the time she had chicken pox, we haven't gone a waking hour without being in touch.
I feel devastated. I was convinced she loved me and that our lives were about to truly start. It's unlike her to just go quiet.
I don't know what to do.
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