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This is my first time posting here but I need advice or maybe some answers that I can't get from him.
About 6 months ago I began talking to a guy after he asked a friend of mine to hook us up. I'm 18 and he is 22. We became official about 4 months ago. I knew he had a serious girlfriend before me but I was reassured they were completely broken up for good and that he ended it. He even told friends this before I was in the picture. Everything was great, we rarely argued and if we did it was resolved quickly with hugs or phone calls. He acted so in love with me, spending all of his free time with me, always telling me how much he loved me, spending lots of time with my family, I met his family the whole deal. He would get worried about me cheating on him even though I always told him I'm extremely loyal. He would get upset when I third wheeled with our friends who are a couple if he was busy and couldn't make it. He always paid for my food and my gas if I had to pick him up. I thought I had a very serious relationship as when we did have a few arguments where we both ended up in tears either over the phone or in each other's arms. A few days ago I received a message from his so called "ex's" best friend informing me that they are still together. Our relationship was never a secret, his name in my bio and mine in his. Pictures of him all over my social media and his with her cousin even following me. She never thought to contact me until now. I haven't gotten the truth nor have we communicated much since I broke up with him after finding out. He asked if we were together and of course I said no... so he went running back to her. He told me he still and always will love me even if I don't believe it. The same day I found out he apparently was with her or supposed to be with her but he was calling me all morning bc he thought I was upset with him when I slept in. This girl has seen all of his messages and everything. He slept over my house every weekend for ab a month and spent lots of time helping my dad around my house or conversations with my mom. He would always be affectionate with dancing around my kitchen to forehead kisses. We didn't have sex very often and enjoyed most of our time just going out to eat and talking. He was texting my friend this morning saying he knows he fucked up and then he said "I owe you an apology even tho you don't want to hear it" I haven't gotten an apology yet and that was two hours ago. As you can see I am heartbroken and confused. I never questioned him, not once did I think he could do this. He acted like I was the love of his life and thanked me for being in his life almost everyday. I want answers but I don't know how to get them, I also want an apology even though I will not reply to it. Any advice on how to get through this and get the answers and apology we both agreed I deserve? (ps. This all happened two days ago, after spending the entire day before that together)
About 6 months ago I began talking to a guy after he asked a friend of mine to hook us up. I'm 18 and he is 22. We became official about 4 months ago. I knew he had a serious girlfriend before me but I was reassured they were completely broken up for good and that he ended it. He even told friends this before I was in the picture. Everything was great, we rarely argued and if we did it was resolved quickly with hugs or phone calls. He acted so in love with me, spending all of his free time with me, always telling me how much he loved me, spending lots of time with my family, I met his family the whole deal. He would get worried about me cheating on him even though I always told him I'm extremely loyal. He would get upset when I third wheeled with our friends who are a couple if he was busy and couldn't make it. He always paid for my food and my gas if I had to pick him up. I thought I had a very serious relationship as when we did have a few arguments where we both ended up in tears either over the phone or in each other's arms. A few days ago I received a message from his so called "ex's" best friend informing me that they are still together. Our relationship was never a secret, his name in my bio and mine in his. Pictures of him all over my social media and his with her cousin even following me. She never thought to contact me until now. I haven't gotten the truth nor have we communicated much since I broke up with him after finding out. He asked if we were together and of course I said no... so he went running back to her. He told me he still and always will love me even if I don't believe it. The same day I found out he apparently was with her or supposed to be with her but he was calling me all morning bc he thought I was upset with him when I slept in. This girl has seen all of his messages and everything. He slept over my house every weekend for ab a month and spent lots of time helping my dad around my house or conversations with my mom. He would always be affectionate with dancing around my kitchen to forehead kisses. We didn't have sex very often and enjoyed most of our time just going out to eat and talking. He was texting my friend this morning saying he knows he fucked up and then he said "I owe you an apology even tho you don't want to hear it" I haven't gotten an apology yet and that was two hours ago. As you can see I am heartbroken and confused. I never questioned him, not once did I think he could do this. He acted like I was the love of his life and thanked me for being in his life almost everyday. I want answers but I don't know how to get them, I also want an apology even though I will not reply to it. Any advice on how to get through this and get the answers and apology we both agreed I deserve? (ps. This all happened two days ago, after spending the entire day before that together)
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