One question I have is about how this woman I was in a relationship with was shocked about how I was so calm about everything.
When this girl and I were together, she was like, "How are you so calm?" Like when my car broke down, or when she thought she was pregnant and she wasn't, but I remained calm and kept my composure and she couldn't believe it.
Even when we were apart for long parts at a time, and I couldn't see her, I still kept my cool and was very calm.
She kinda made me feel guilty because she said she felt that I didn't show any emotion, and like I wasn't human.
Should I have let that worry me?
But the fact was that I eventually broke down and lost my composure because we had been going almost 2 months without seeing each other after we had been seeing each other once a month for about 4 months straight.
Would you be able to keep your composure in this situation?
I'm hard on myself because I felt I should have, but doesn't that happen to us all?
When this girl and I were together, she was like, "How are you so calm?" Like when my car broke down, or when she thought she was pregnant and she wasn't, but I remained calm and kept my composure and she couldn't believe it.
Even when we were apart for long parts at a time, and I couldn't see her, I still kept my cool and was very calm.
She kinda made me feel guilty because she said she felt that I didn't show any emotion, and like I wasn't human.
Should I have let that worry me?
But the fact was that I eventually broke down and lost my composure because we had been going almost 2 months without seeing each other after we had been seeing each other once a month for about 4 months straight.
Would you be able to keep your composure in this situation?
I'm hard on myself because I felt I should have, but doesn't that happen to us all?
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