My Boyfriend Constantly Express How Sexy, Hot, And Beautiful Other Women Are

[Julia]

I'm not sure my significant other is worth keeping?"

You tell me if you think he is. He is constantly expressing how sexy, hot, and beautiful other women are.

He said he fantasizes about these other women when having sex with me. If you ask me, the only thing he's worth is kicking out of my house.

[Nicolas]

Hi Julia,

Right, first it gives me a chance to rant a bit:

What a JERK!

OK, I know in the articles I publish I often spend a lot of time helping women "get" men and teaching women to "accept" men for who (and what) they are. (And I spend a lot of time trying to teach men how to accept women too.)

But some guys are just jerks and one of the keys to happiness in life is to not date or hang out with people like this.

Because you deserve better.

Now, I am not saying he is a jerk for finding other women attractive (ALL guys are going to look at other women no matter how devoted or in love with you they are.)

I am not even saying h is a jerk for fantasizing about other women while having sex with you (both men and women do this on a regular basis.)

What makes this guy a jerk is his complete and utter disregard for your feelings and his lack of interest in making YOU feel hot, sexy, attractive and loved.

What makes this guy a jerk is that he is cruel. And it is not "accidentally" cruel. This guy seems to be cruel knowingly and eagerly and he is the kind of guy I would like to teach some "RESPECT" to.

Leave him, Julia.

There are great men out there (I get emails from them and I know some really cool men) and even if you are alone for a while, being alone is going to be better than the crap you are putting up with now.

And after you're free of this guy, then take time to care for yourself and learn and discover what a great, sexy, connected relationship is like.

Keep in contact and let me how things go for you.

[Julia]

Nicolas, thank you for your advice.