My boyfriend who I love dearly, that can be the sweetest most supporting and amazing person I know has every once in a while a blow out where he starts being offended and acting very dramatic, making little sense and being very mean and aggressive in his tone of speaking..
Our recent fight was 2 days after his 14 years old dog died.. He is really depressed I can tell.
I didnt know how to make him feel better so I just tried to be supportive and avoid anything that could trigger him to be more depressed.. He needed some time alone so I didn't call him again that day.. The next day I was at my first day at a new job and so at the end of the day I called him to see how he was and he immediately asked how it went.. So since he had brought it up I continue taking about it.. I accidentally spoke over him, I do that some time, and he got so mad.. Saying I didn't care about him and am stepping on his feelings and after arguing he hung up.. 3 times to be exact.. The 4th time I hung up and said that no matter how he is hurting I won't allow anyone to speak to me in that manner.. No matter how many time I accidentally speak over him..
He is a very carrying and very emotional person.. It gets him to become overly dramatic like this situation I just mention.
Btw we aren't speaking and it's been a day and a half.. I'm worried...
Most of the time I feel he is the men of my life, I felt this way since my last relationship and made a move a year after it ended when I acknowledged that these were real feelings.. That is a men I want to marry..
Am I doing the worst mistake of my life? Can I work this out with him? Does he need professional help..
Our recent fight was 2 days after his 14 years old dog died.. He is really depressed I can tell.
I didnt know how to make him feel better so I just tried to be supportive and avoid anything that could trigger him to be more depressed.. He needed some time alone so I didn't call him again that day.. The next day I was at my first day at a new job and so at the end of the day I called him to see how he was and he immediately asked how it went.. So since he had brought it up I continue taking about it.. I accidentally spoke over him, I do that some time, and he got so mad.. Saying I didn't care about him and am stepping on his feelings and after arguing he hung up.. 3 times to be exact.. The 4th time I hung up and said that no matter how he is hurting I won't allow anyone to speak to me in that manner.. No matter how many time I accidentally speak over him..
He is a very carrying and very emotional person.. It gets him to become overly dramatic like this situation I just mention.
Btw we aren't speaking and it's been a day and a half.. I'm worried...
Most of the time I feel he is the men of my life, I felt this way since my last relationship and made a move a year after it ended when I acknowledged that these were real feelings.. That is a men I want to marry..
Am I doing the worst mistake of my life? Can I work this out with him? Does he need professional help..
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