So I think it is important to note that I am a 17 year old male and have never dated before in my life. I am insecure and I am socially awkward.
Anyway, heres the story...
saw a girl I thought looked cute and told my friend about her, my friend told me if I didnt say anything then he would. I was scared and didnt say anything so my friend talked to her for me. I got her number and we have been talking for about a week and a half now.
In that time my dumbass has already told her about my feelings for her and it was reciprocated with "yea i already knew" so that was a stab to the heart. I've already shared some of my darker side to her bcuz I get way overly attached too quick. Also, when I see her in person at school I cannot carry a conversation to save my life it is like watching a train derail.
My friends say I am overthinking because I keep thinking shes making excuses to not hang out with me. However, I don't know what else they could be.
I think I am too clingy, I think I am maybe a little too friendly idk, I think maybe I am talking to her too much on the phone? We are both sorta awkward/anxious people so maybe thats an issue? I just need a little bit of guidance as to where to go from here and what I can do to maybe turn things around if possible.
Anyway, heres the story...
saw a girl I thought looked cute and told my friend about her, my friend told me if I didnt say anything then he would. I was scared and didnt say anything so my friend talked to her for me. I got her number and we have been talking for about a week and a half now.
In that time my dumbass has already told her about my feelings for her and it was reciprocated with "yea i already knew" so that was a stab to the heart. I've already shared some of my darker side to her bcuz I get way overly attached too quick. Also, when I see her in person at school I cannot carry a conversation to save my life it is like watching a train derail.
My friends say I am overthinking because I keep thinking shes making excuses to not hang out with me. However, I don't know what else they could be.
I think I am too clingy, I think I am maybe a little too friendly idk, I think maybe I am talking to her too much on the phone? We are both sorta awkward/anxious people so maybe thats an issue? I just need a little bit of guidance as to where to go from here and what I can do to maybe turn things around if possible.
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