Does he still love me and what should I do now?

[Thelonelyone]

Hi guys, I’m new here, and I’m very happy to meet you all. I would like to share my problems and please forgive me for my unprofessional writing. Well, I met my ex online from a chatroom. We never met each other. We were together for just 2 months, and there were some kinds of trusting issues and miscommunication. So we were on and off, but at the end, he was the one who broke up with me almost 2 years ago because I showed my face on the camera a lot for other men to view, this is what he just told me why he broke up with me, this made him very upset. But the thing is, he always wanted to help me with financial even we never met each other, he’s helped me some money right after things went wrong. After broke up, we rarely talk to each other for 2 years. But mostly he acted cold and maybe he was liking someone else, I’m not sure about that, the lady he was chasing knew that we used to be the lovers, so she hasn’t made a decision to be with him or something. However, recently, I told him that in this 2 years I have never stopped thinking about him. He didn’t say anything about his feelings but asked for my new phone number and we talked for a little bit, and he still offered to help me with financial because he heard from my friend who told him about my problems, he felt sorry for all the unlucky things that happened to me in this 2 years, and he wished that he shouldn’t broke up with me so I didn’t have to move to another city and faced with all these obstacles, but this is what he said to my friend, and my friend told me about it. And then he send me an email asking me if I ever need his help again, he’s willing to help. But I refused because deep down, needed him more than the money, but I cannot tell him about that, I just want him to take me back without me forcing him. So, in this case, does he still love me or something? Like, we never met each other in real world, all of this just happened online, but we texted and talked on the phone a lot. But now, he keeps teasing with this girl in the chatroom, they send kisses and love icons, but then she claim that they were just friends. And I think he just wanted to make the other lady jealous or something. And he doesn’t open up to tell me that he still love me and wants me back after I told him about my feelings. So I’m afraid that he just wanted to help me because he’s a generous person or he just wanted to show off with my friend who told him about me, however, he just told me that whenever I need his help, just let him know, and suggested me to put my ego aside. And besides, I’m a single mom, so I’m not really confident about myself, so I don’t know what to do. Please share your thoughts and thanks for in advance!

[Zinok]

It doesn't really sound like you two had much of a relationship, being together for only two months. Personally I wouldn't feel comfortable taking his money, but if you are power to you. That being said, it seems like that's all he's willing to offer you right now, and you should probably try to move on and not get hung up on the idea of dating him again. You've told him how you feel and he's responded.

[Olivia]

When you find yourself apart from the one you love after a breakup, you may find yourself asking whether he still cares about you. You may also want to know whether he is dating someone new. In short, what you are really asking yourself is, "How do I know if he still loves me"? This is an understandable question, especially if you are still in love with him.

If you wonder whether he still loves you, here are 5 signs that he might:

1. He asks about you through your friends

If you were married to or dated your man for a long time, it is likely that you share many of the same friends and acquaintances. If you hear now and then through the grapevine that your ex is still asking about how you are doing, that is a strong sign that he is still interested in you and may be in love with you. After all, why would he ask if he didn't care?

2. He seems awkward or unsure of himself when you speak on the phone or in person

When you do run into your man or occasionally speak with him on the phone, how does he act? Is he fairly calm, mild-mannered, and cool? Or, on the contrary, does he seem just a bit flustered, awkward, and unsure of himself? If he seems to lack confidence or trip up his words now and then when the two of you speak, it may mean his feelings for you still run deep.

3. He tries to flaunt the fact that he is dating someone else

When you or your friends run into your ex, does he make it a point to let you find out that he is dating someone else? If your ex lets it slip that he is now with someone else or is at least pursuing other people, he could be trying to make you feel jealous. Of course, that would mean he still cares.

4. He still asks a lot of detailed questions about your personal life

Does your ex ask you questions that most people would consider too private for casual conversation? For example, does he want to know a lot of details about how you are spending your time, what your near-term plans are, and the like? These types of questions would indicate that you still occupy a starring role in his mind and heart.

5. He has completely pushed you out of his life

By contrast to the first 4 signs that he may still love you, some men choose to express their sadness and longing for their ex girlfriend or wife by completely breaking off all contact with her. Sure, on the surface that doesn't sound like a very loving thing to do, does it? But, underneath that cold wall of silence might be a warm heart that is still pining for your love.

[Bradwin]

Your post was quite long, so it took me time to read through it all.

One thing you must know is that, no Man just act generously towards a woman. If a man is generous to you, then he likes you.

In your case, your ex boyfriend still loves you and that explains why he's generous to you. Being generous means he still cares about you.

The fact is that, the same way you are finding it difficult to tell him you want him back, that's is how he's finding it difficult to let you know he wants you back.

So the best thing to do is to keep the lines of communication open. As you both start communicating more often, he will let you know how he feels with time.