Is this all there is in a relationship?

[peace]

Widowed after wonderful marriage. Eventually met some men. It’s been 6 years and I’m in a dilemma now. Dated a man in and off for 5 years. Sex is great (still) and chemistry too. But he has almost no money for retirement and he is 65. I’m 60 have saved money and want to enjoy my retirement in a few years.

Then i met someone else some time ago. He can take care of himself for retirement,very nice, good family,educated and a professional like me But little chemistry. Sex is just ok. I enjoy his company and he is good to me.

Do so I accept someone as my life partner who falls short in some respect like chemistry or finances, or start all over knowing no one is perfect (including me).

[Sofia]

The fact is that, nobody is perfect and if you are searching for the "perfect one," such people don't exist. So, you must have that at the back of your mind while you choose your life partner.

[David]

If I were you I would choose the new man over the other man. The reason being that, the new man is financially stable whereas the other man will a burden to you financially.