Why when I tried to cut her out she told me that we don't fit each other?

[maged]

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I love a girl who is engaged, she seemed interested initiating conversations almost on daily basis for hours. She told me that she feels like she knew me long time ago, she even told that she knew that I am in love and that my eyes expose me. we knew each other for 3 months and that how it started.

Without getting into too many suffocating details, and there are many, after 2 months I confessed about how feel for her and she was surprised and when I asked her if she did not know, she said no although she told me 2 months ago that she knows implicitly. Then thing between us became ajar, she did not want me to tell her that I love her but she may get coy from flirt and after awhile she may flirt back. I got very attracted to her, I suffered much from this dither situation, having hope may be something would happen, why do I feel like this?, unable to understand if she loves him as she says, how she is like this with me (even if she calls it friends).

After one month I tried to cut her out of my life, she asked me why, I told her that I love her, she kept trying to convince me not to do so telling me that it is wrong, and that some people can not get married but can stay together, I asked her as friends?, she said yes, I told her over and over that I can't, unable to understand her persistence and the situation is already hard enough that I am leaving someone I don't want to leave. Eventually when she failed to change my mind she told me that even if she did not have a boyfriend, we didn't fit each other. I said nothing, I don't know why she said that, it was really painful, I was trying to do the right thing. If I meant anything to her why she did not say, if I did not mean anything to her, I am leaving anyway.
Leaving was the only thing left I had to make her understand that I love her, Why the dagger?

[Clinton]

First, you made a mistake for dating a girl who has a boyfriend. You even made a greater mistake by falling in love with her. The fact is that, if a girl already has a boyfriend it means she already loves someone else and you will be making a mistake if you think you can change her love for her boyfriend.

So, I'll advice you move on with grace. Hopefully you will get a girl that will love and cherish you soon.

[Bella]

The fact that she said you both don't fit doesn't mean you won't be a perfect fit for another girl. So, don't feel bad about that because she is just one out of a million girls.

[maged]

First, you made a mistake for dating a girl who has a boyfriend. You even made a greater mistake by falling in love with her. The fact is that, if a girl already has a boyfriend it means she already loves someone else and you will be making a mistake if you think you can change her love for her boyfriend.

So, I'll advice you move on with grace. Hopefully you will get a girl that will love and cherish you soon.

First, you made a mistake for dating a girl who has a boyfriend.

We work for the same firm, we did not go out on official date

You even made a greater mistake by falling in love with her.

With the way she was treating me, I do not know if I could help it

The fact is that, if a girl already has a boyfriend it means she already loves someone else and you will be making a mistake if you think you can change her love for her boyfriend.

I thought she is unhappy with him although she says that she loves him. I thought she likes me, I did not understand if she is in love with him how she would be like this with me, I thought I am special for her she somehow made me feel so when she was trying to check up on me when I want to say nothing as I was not in the mode of talking and she tells "you know I am the most one who tolerate your tempers" and when she tried to make up with me for hours on problem that I made it up just trying to make things to take different way or slow things down a little bit. I sometimes thought that she may actually feel jealous when I told her that I can not be the person she wants me to be as a friend, she kept asking me why, then when she saw me talking to another girl she texted me "so you talk to other girls why don't you want to talk to me?".

why she was so clingy, who am I for her?

So, I'll advice you move on with grace. Hopefully you will get a girl that will love and cherish you soon.

Thats what I am trying to do, I just dont know how

[maged]

The fact that she said you both don't fit doesn't mean you won't be a perfect fit for another girl. So, don't feel bad about that because she is just one out of a million girls.

I saw her the only one.