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Hello there.. i have an ex boyfriend. We broke up 2015.. He broke up with me via facebook messenger and he said that he's fallen inlove with another woman. A single mom.
To make the story short. They did not have any relationship after my ex and I broke up. I mean its a total fail. Then what happened after 2 months my ex tried to pursue me again. You know making phone calls and txt messages. After few months I decided to be friends with him and later on we dated again. The usual going out to watch movies and eating out somewhere. But at that time. Its not like the old times that I consider it being official and a secured relationship because I have this feeling that he's fooling me. But then again I just enjoyed his company. Because my ex and I have a lot of similiarities we enjoy a lot of activities when were together like watching movies, and stuff.
So, him.. as always, he adds a lot of girls on his facebook. I mean almost everyweek i see a new girl on his friends list on facebook. So that was an issue to me before. I mean they are just random girls. Some of them are students and still having their college life. Some live by the same town where he lives. And some are his new co employees (girls)
i admit at being paranoid when we are still new with our relationship few yrs ago. But i mean now what the hell. It seems he has not changed i told him about it that i dont like it and i decided to walk out of our relationship but he just laughs at me in a way that hes trying to be sweet . And laughs at me of me being paranoid again. I said u cant blame me uve cheated on me before right. Then he just sent sad stickers via fb chat. Then tried to call me on messenger. He asks me to meet him and he will wait for me to finish work at my office. So we went out eat and all . Then its really not consistent. Because i always make up excuses coz i dont wanna see him. I dont know what im feeling. So fast forward. Few days ago he wants to go to my office again so that we can hang out eat the usual he said he wanted to see me but i dont want. Maybe I got really tired. (Finally) after 3yrs of being with him with this kind of relationship.
so now at work. There's this guy whos been with the company for almost 5 yrs. Me i just had may 1st yr November 2017.
Were new teamates since our team assignments changes every quarter. The first time that we introduced ourselves to the new team. He asked where i live. Then I found out that were from a same town. I said oh really. Im 26. He's 23. Hes tall cute and wears glasses like me. But i only where my glasses outside especially at night bcoz i cannot see anything at night.
So hes a quiet type of guy and gentleman. We exchanged talks while were at the office you know the usual stuff where did i go to college and all. Since were from the same town, stuffs like that. I find him very gentleman. And kind and respectful.
Compared to my ex who is sometimes rude and do whatever he wants. So. Heres the most awkward situation that happened. While im crossing the street from our office I did not realize that hes behind me. Since were from the same town. Probably he will go the same way as mine. At that time. I felt awkwardness in a way that I feel like my cheeks were blushing. Lol. We rode the same bus. Hes at my back following me. Then i sat at the seat in from of him were at the aisle. Then im so freaking stupid while im looking for my purse to hand my fare to the bus conductor. I just realized that i forgot to withdraw money from the atm i dont have cash with me literally zero. So thats the most awkward thung that happened to me with a guy.i was like talking to myself at that time telling myself how stupid i am. So he asked hey what would u like to do ? Do u want us to go to the bank and withdraw first. But i can pay for it first i'll treat u. Then i cannot look at his face bcoz of awkwardness.. then i said okay.. uhm i'll just oay u later then. Then im starting have awkward smile. Hahaha. So then we had chitchats about work. And all then we arrived the bus terminal and waited for another bus to go to our town. Since i dont have money he paid for the fare again. Up until i reached my home. He provided me money for my transportation since we will ride seperate bus once we reach our town bcoz we live on a diff district. So im so suoer shy at that time oh my god.
so the next day. He sat near my station at work. So we had chitchats as well. I tried to hand him the money that he used to pay my transportation the last day but he refused. Smhes so cute and i think at that time im falling for him. He looks straight to my eyes whenever were talking. . And whenever hes around i feel nervous.and excited. So its time to go home again and i tried to walk fast while crossing the street to avoid him xoz im really shy about what happened. Once i reached the bus stop to wait for the bus i preteneded to look shocked to see him. I told i did not know that hes there behind me. So we rode the same bus for the again.second day.This time we sat next to each other in beside the bus driver. Hes beside me. He asked me if i have a bf. I said none.
I said i'll treat u this time since u did not accept my pay earlier for yesterday. He said no. He hesitated not to take my money for the fare. Im.trying to reach out to the fare collector at the buss to take my money but he hesitated to take his instead. Then he smiled. Oh my god i think im falling for him. Then same thing we talked a lot . And there u go. The next day its our off. I'll be back on sunday . He will be at the office.im confused . Im falling for him.
the downside? He has a girlfriend. He told me about that before. When were still at the office. Before the bus thing happened.
im falling for him. I enjoy talking to him hes respectful quiet type of guy whom a girl dreams of.
dunno what to do. I told him that i submitted my resignation (personal choice ; i submitted it before i met him) then he said i can retract my resignation.
confused im really falling for him . I can see that his very loyal to his gf coz i tried to stalk his fb. Were not friends on fb. Hes very sweet to her. And her f is very lucky to have him. I dont want to ruin that of course. The thing is im falling in love with him soooon. Dunno what to do. Maybe its right thing that i submitted my resignation to avoid him.
To make the story short. They did not have any relationship after my ex and I broke up. I mean its a total fail. Then what happened after 2 months my ex tried to pursue me again. You know making phone calls and txt messages. After few months I decided to be friends with him and later on we dated again. The usual going out to watch movies and eating out somewhere. But at that time. Its not like the old times that I consider it being official and a secured relationship because I have this feeling that he's fooling me. But then again I just enjoyed his company. Because my ex and I have a lot of similiarities we enjoy a lot of activities when were together like watching movies, and stuff.
So, him.. as always, he adds a lot of girls on his facebook. I mean almost everyweek i see a new girl on his friends list on facebook. So that was an issue to me before. I mean they are just random girls. Some of them are students and still having their college life. Some live by the same town where he lives. And some are his new co employees (girls)
i admit at being paranoid when we are still new with our relationship few yrs ago. But i mean now what the hell. It seems he has not changed i told him about it that i dont like it and i decided to walk out of our relationship but he just laughs at me in a way that hes trying to be sweet . And laughs at me of me being paranoid again. I said u cant blame me uve cheated on me before right. Then he just sent sad stickers via fb chat. Then tried to call me on messenger. He asks me to meet him and he will wait for me to finish work at my office. So we went out eat and all . Then its really not consistent. Because i always make up excuses coz i dont wanna see him. I dont know what im feeling. So fast forward. Few days ago he wants to go to my office again so that we can hang out eat the usual he said he wanted to see me but i dont want. Maybe I got really tired. (Finally) after 3yrs of being with him with this kind of relationship.
so now at work. There's this guy whos been with the company for almost 5 yrs. Me i just had may 1st yr November 2017.
Were new teamates since our team assignments changes every quarter. The first time that we introduced ourselves to the new team. He asked where i live. Then I found out that were from a same town. I said oh really. Im 26. He's 23. Hes tall cute and wears glasses like me. But i only where my glasses outside especially at night bcoz i cannot see anything at night.
So hes a quiet type of guy and gentleman. We exchanged talks while were at the office you know the usual stuff where did i go to college and all. Since were from the same town, stuffs like that. I find him very gentleman. And kind and respectful.
Compared to my ex who is sometimes rude and do whatever he wants. So. Heres the most awkward situation that happened. While im crossing the street from our office I did not realize that hes behind me. Since were from the same town. Probably he will go the same way as mine. At that time. I felt awkwardness in a way that I feel like my cheeks were blushing. Lol. We rode the same bus. Hes at my back following me. Then i sat at the seat in from of him were at the aisle. Then im so freaking stupid while im looking for my purse to hand my fare to the bus conductor. I just realized that i forgot to withdraw money from the atm i dont have cash with me literally zero. So thats the most awkward thung that happened to me with a guy.i was like talking to myself at that time telling myself how stupid i am. So he asked hey what would u like to do ? Do u want us to go to the bank and withdraw first. But i can pay for it first i'll treat u. Then i cannot look at his face bcoz of awkwardness.. then i said okay.. uhm i'll just oay u later then. Then im starting have awkward smile. Hahaha. So then we had chitchats about work. And all then we arrived the bus terminal and waited for another bus to go to our town. Since i dont have money he paid for the fare again. Up until i reached my home. He provided me money for my transportation since we will ride seperate bus once we reach our town bcoz we live on a diff district. So im so suoer shy at that time oh my god.
so the next day. He sat near my station at work. So we had chitchats as well. I tried to hand him the money that he used to pay my transportation the last day but he refused. Smhes so cute and i think at that time im falling for him. He looks straight to my eyes whenever were talking. . And whenever hes around i feel nervous.and excited. So its time to go home again and i tried to walk fast while crossing the street to avoid him xoz im really shy about what happened. Once i reached the bus stop to wait for the bus i preteneded to look shocked to see him. I told i did not know that hes there behind me. So we rode the same bus for the again.second day.This time we sat next to each other in beside the bus driver. Hes beside me. He asked me if i have a bf. I said none.
I said i'll treat u this time since u did not accept my pay earlier for yesterday. He said no. He hesitated not to take my money for the fare. Im.trying to reach out to the fare collector at the buss to take my money but he hesitated to take his instead. Then he smiled. Oh my god i think im falling for him. Then same thing we talked a lot . And there u go. The next day its our off. I'll be back on sunday . He will be at the office.im confused . Im falling for him.
the downside? He has a girlfriend. He told me about that before. When were still at the office. Before the bus thing happened.
im falling for him. I enjoy talking to him hes respectful quiet type of guy whom a girl dreams of.
dunno what to do. I told him that i submitted my resignation (personal choice ; i submitted it before i met him) then he said i can retract my resignation.
confused im really falling for him . I can see that his very loyal to his gf coz i tried to stalk his fb. Were not friends on fb. Hes very sweet to her. And her f is very lucky to have him. I dont want to ruin that of course. The thing is im falling in love with him soooon. Dunno what to do. Maybe its right thing that i submitted my resignation to avoid him.
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