How do I break the news to the kids?

[singledad40]

I’m a father of two beautiful children and was widowed so my friends wanted me to get back out there and give love another chance. My kids aren’t that old yet and I’m worried what they would think since it is a little too soon. But I tried one of those international dating social events and left them with their aunt for a week and a half. Since I got back I kept to myself and kept my girlfriend secret. Now I’m wondering, how do I break it to my kids that i’m thinkin about remarrying? I’m afraid they’ll resent me for replacing their ma so fast.

[Jane]

The best way to let your kids know about your girlfriend is to bring her home, and let them interact with her. Meanwhile observe your kids to know if they like her. You should only let them know she is your girlfriend if they like her, otherwise don't tell them anything about her and immediately breakup with her.

[Jerome]

Only marry a woman your kids love. Your kids are more valuable than any woman in the world.

[bunnyhabit]

kids need a woman in their life more than you. introduce her as soon as possible. explain to your kids (if you must) why she is important to your well being also. they will warm to her quickly.

is more important that she makes you happy than your children. most children accept new people into their life easily. they do not have the option to reject her.

you should have addressed this subject before capturing a girlfriend

[bunnyhabit]

based on other rtwo people suggestions, bring a bunch of girls home and let your kids decide who you are allowed to love