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I have known this woman for over a year now. I have not wanted to date for a couple years. A little over a year ago I met this woman at work. She would come over and we would talk for hours at work. After a while she gave me her number on her own I did not ask for it. We talked for hours on the phone, up until 4 and 5 am on weekend nights. We are both single parents.
Finally we go on a date I planned to take her out for an hour for her birthday. We both had to work early the next day so I planned to keep it short. I picked her up at 8pm so she could have dinner with her family. We were having an amazing time at 10 I still said let me take you home. She did not want to go home. I took her to the park. She wanted to cuddle and kiss. We did that until 5am!!! The conversation and chemistry was so good. The next day she was texting me all day. Saying things like I have never been able to talk to a man like I can with you even men I have been with for years. She was saying things like she wished I was there with her. Any way things were great.
The day after that she texted me that she can’t mix work and personal. I tried to talk it out and was ignored. Following night she texted about her grandmother being sick. I responded once and she said she was talking to her son’s friend’s mom. I texted her next day to see how she was and I got no response. I what was going on I sent probably 4 or 5 texts with no reply. In the middle of the night she said she was dealing with her grandmother being sick and that she had to figure how to pay and get her mom to see her grandmother. Her mom is her baby sitter so this would be a big strain.
I understand that I texted her too much and should of given her space. It has been one month since we have spoken. I texted her once 3 days later to say sorry for all the texts, and then 2 weeks after that again to let her know whatever is going on in our life I was there to be her friend. And our talks and chemistry was not worth throwing away without a talk. Both the text and email were ignored. So now here I sit almost 2 weeks after the email for a month since we have spoken and nothing. How as a woman can you be so into a guy then complete opposite? What happen? Ladies have you done this before with a guy you really liked?
Finally we go on a date I planned to take her out for an hour for her birthday. We both had to work early the next day so I planned to keep it short. I picked her up at 8pm so she could have dinner with her family. We were having an amazing time at 10 I still said let me take you home. She did not want to go home. I took her to the park. She wanted to cuddle and kiss. We did that until 5am!!! The conversation and chemistry was so good. The next day she was texting me all day. Saying things like I have never been able to talk to a man like I can with you even men I have been with for years. She was saying things like she wished I was there with her. Any way things were great.
The day after that she texted me that she can’t mix work and personal. I tried to talk it out and was ignored. Following night she texted about her grandmother being sick. I responded once and she said she was talking to her son’s friend’s mom. I texted her next day to see how she was and I got no response. I what was going on I sent probably 4 or 5 texts with no reply. In the middle of the night she said she was dealing with her grandmother being sick and that she had to figure how to pay and get her mom to see her grandmother. Her mom is her baby sitter so this would be a big strain.
I understand that I texted her too much and should of given her space. It has been one month since we have spoken. I texted her once 3 days later to say sorry for all the texts, and then 2 weeks after that again to let her know whatever is going on in our life I was there to be her friend. And our talks and chemistry was not worth throwing away without a talk. Both the text and email were ignored. So now here I sit almost 2 weeks after the email for a month since we have spoken and nothing. How as a woman can you be so into a guy then complete opposite? What happen? Ladies have you done this before with a guy you really liked?
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