The girl no guy likes

[AnotherOne]

Hey everyone! I hope you're all alright!

I just feel to talk with someone about my problem. I'm a girl who recently became 24 and I'm starting to get worried cause it seems that there's no guy who's interested in me. And I've already reached the age where it seems that everyone is taken, except me.
I don't think I'm an ugly girl, but not pretty either. I'm not a bimbo, but I like taking care of myself, I'm not clingy, but I'm supportive and I give people enough space when I see they need to be alone.
So I'm a bit confused. Don't wanna be mean, but I saw girls with bad personalities who are adored by their lovers and there are times when I don't even get a text back.

Here are some recent examples that made me feel desolated:

1. I met a guy, we hung out a few times, he even told me I'm beautiful and nice, and said to hang out more. I also took initiative, like texting him first (we usually took turns). A week after he complimented me, baaam, he's gotten into a relationship. Not with me, of course.

2. Last weekend, I went to a club with my friends and a guy approached me. We talked for a few hours, we danced, we eventually kissed (first time I've kissed a stranger at a club). We weren't drunk, nor tipsy. When I left, he told me his phone is broken and he won't have access to it for a few days, till it gets fixed. But he said he'd like to keep in touch, so he asked me if I can add him on social networks, cause he'll accept my request from his laptop. I did, and a few hours later he accepted my request. And 1-2 hours later, he unfriended me.
I didn't want to have anything to do with him anymore, but I sent him a message so he can see that I noticed he unfriended me. I told him something like: ''it was nice meeting you, keep having fun!'' (In a friendly manner).
Aaand he left me on seen.

Why do you think this happened? As I said, we were not drunk and there's no difference between my real self and the photos.
During that night, he was with his friends. I thought that maybe they did a silly bet like ''how many girls can we kiss / add on our social accounts''. I can't seem to find another explanation. It would've made sense if he was drunk and forgotten what I look like, but we were sober.

I know it's not something serious, especially since the club isn't the place to meet your love, but this kind of stuff affects one's self-esteem.
I feel really bad, not necessarily because this situation is pretty lame, but because of my overall situation. I feel that everyone has a special person in their life and honestly, I want to be like that as well.
These were just 2 relevant and recent examples.
But basically, all my youth has been pretty much like that. I just don't understand what's my problem. I know I'm not perfect, but I don't know what I should change to myself. How do people fall in love? I'm tired of being the only one who does and there's no reciprocity.

Sorry if my story has bored and I don't know if you read it till here. And if you did, thanks a lot!

[Julia]

It's every woman's secret desire that the man she's going out with sees her as a goddess - someone that he can't live without! There's always this desire to be the one that's sought after and beloved. So how can you make a guy feel lucky to have someone like you?

Believe that you're worthy to be loved.
He'll feel lucky to have you if you believe yourself to be worthy of such adulation. There is no way that he's going to adore you if you don't even believe that you have what it takes to be admired.

Let him see you cheering him on.
You've got to let this man see that you're his number one fan, his number one cheerleader, and his best source of support. Don't just be one of the adoring girls out there, be the best! Boost his ego enough and he'll want to keep you for good.

Love him and expect for nothing.
One of the most common errors that women make is the fact that they love a man conditionally. That is, they only continue loving him if he responds positively to what they're showing. Though you may not see him reciprocate, keep loving him still and he's bound to notice that you're always there for him.

Sacrifice but don't be a martyr.
Love him enough to go the extra mile but don't make him take advantage of your kindness. Keep loving him and doing good things for him but not too much that he would end up abusing your goodness.

Be a real head-turner and he's the proudest guy alive!
Make him notice and take count of all the heads that turn once you pass by and this guy will be the proudest boyfriend! In order to achieve this, you've got to be someone who never goes wrong with her clothing ensemble. You also should know how to apply the most appropriate kind of makeup for your skin type.

Don't become an infidel.
This is probably one of the most crushing things that could happen to a man. If you begin flirting with other men - even when he's not around - then you're slowly deteriorating into an unfaithful woman. Don't go that lane - it's often thorny and painful.

Never manipulate him in any way.
Try to show that you're a controlling, manipulative woman and this guy isn't going to last! You might succeed in trapping him but you will never truly have his heart or his trust. Let him have his space, respect him, and treat him like a man in every aspect. These are the things that would make him yours.

[Brett]

When you are into someone and that person has finally asked you to a date you would want to make it the way you planned it. There are many ways on how you can make sure that your date will have a perfect ending. One of the successful dating tricks that you can apply is flirting. It is a good way of letting someone know that you are into him. However you should do it in a way that the person will not feel intimidated or feel that you are being aggressive. When you know how to flirt nicely, you can motivate and make him feel confident. It can be a good start if you plan to have a serious relationship with your date in the future. If you need a dating flirting tip that you can try on your date, the following will be a great help.

Tip # 1: Innocent Seduction: A nice dating flirting tip that you can use on your date is seducing your date in an innocent way. You can do this by playing with your hair while talking or by letting your finger trace the mouth of the glass of wine while trying to come up with words. These simple but sexy gestures will entice his fantasy and will make him give his full attention on you. This will also make him initiate the romantic gestures that you have been waiting for.

Tip # 2: Let your Voice Awaken his Sensual Fantasy: Another dating flirting tip that you can try if you want to catch his interest is by speaking romantic words in a near whisper volume. By doing this you will be able to manipulate his thoughts and make him want to know more of your opinion on different matters just to hear you speak. This will signal him that you are prepared for a more intimate talk and will allow him to do some gestures like moving closer to you or touching your hand while looking intently into your eyes as he speaks of his feelings and thoughts on you.

Tip # 3: Take Advantage of Eye Contact: During a date you may not have the courage to share all your thoughts and feelings. This is where eye contact becomes helpful. Using this dating flirting tip can greatly change the atmosphere of your date. You can look him in the eye as you express your thoughts and feelings. If you feel like you are ready for the long awaited romantic gesture and he is still unsure if you will allow him, you can prolong the eye contact to let him know that you are ready.

Tip # 4: Use Engaging Questions: Flirting is not always in the form of body language. It can also be done using engaging questions. This dating flirting tip will indicate that you are really into him. This will give him the courage to let you know how interested he is in you. This will also keep the conversation going and make the moment last longer.

[Bri73]

I’m sure you will find, the man of your dreams. Just promise me one thing, don’t give up. And end up like me.

[tion]

Thanks for the advice

[bdog]

I agree with the makeup and clothes suggestions. Do you go to the gym? I’m a sucker for a girl who wears makeup, dresses cute and is in shape. You don’t need big boobs but if you have a nice ass and a flat stomach you’re hot