Help please. Can't Cope With Girlfriends Emotions.

[TheDarkOne]

I don't want to cause offence but when it's my girlfriends period, it's getting as though I can't cope with the change in person. It's been getting worse too. Please don't laugh as it is as bad as I say and I've considered taking my own life so I don't have to go through this every month. The smallest things become massively hysterical and blown out of proportion. What I do or say, no matter what, makes no difference at all even if I do as she asks. In a few days time she will say she is sorry for being a hormonal bitch but nothing changes, it will just happen again. Any advice please? She walked out of the house this morning in tears, slamming the door shouting at me to leave her alone. My crime? Telling her I had a bad nights sleep because we had argued the day before. Her reaction was to become defensive and angry saying that I blame her periods for everything. To be honest, we do only argue when she has her periods. It's like clockwork. A pattern that is the same every month but she won't accept that. I'll not hear from her all day unless I make first contact. Even if I stayed out overnight, she wouldn't ask where I am or if I was ok. She would just say that it was my decision to stay out. Yet if it was the other way around, I would be slaughtered because I didn't care enough to ask how she was!

[bunnyhabit]

you need to be a man and tell her control her attitude or you are leaving her. there is no reason she can not show consideration for your feelings even when hormonal. first time i tried this my boyfriend told me if i had nothing good to say shut the F up and stay away from him. if i didn't like it i knew where the door was.

[TheDarkOne]

you need to be a man and tell her control her attitude or you are leaving her. there is no reason she can not show consideration for your feelings even when hormonal. first time i tried this my boyfriend told me if i had nothing good to say shut the F up and stay away from him. if i didn't like it i knew where the door was.

I tried that. She said, "Fine. You know where the door is!"

[bunnyhabit]

so give her a good time out the next time she pulls her sef centered baby tricks. she obviously believes you will never really dump her for being a bxxch. hook up with a normal female for a while you may enjoy it.

[TheDarkOne]

Good advice!

[Anthony]

I suggest you get used to her attitude and cope with it. Otherwise, you can decide to get another girlfriend if you aren't comfortable with her.

[Pink Flamingo]

I'd have her checked for Bi-polar. If she has a chemical imbalance that could be causing her mood swings. My girlfriends was so bad that we broke up for awhile until she got help.

[smackie9]

Ask her to go on the pill. She can continue to take it and not have to have her period every month. It's safe to do and I know many who have done this. If that isn't a solution, she needs to go see a doctor about it anyways. It can be a simple as doing a low sodium diet and exercise.