Help!

[Lilmissmuffet]

So I have a boyfriend and I like this guy since mid last year. My boyf and i almost broke up last year because i told him that I liked a new guy. But then the new guy does not like me but we have this weird relationship wherein we have sex occassionally. Like once or twice every 1-2 months. That weird relationship is still on going and im going crazy. I love my boyf but i like hanging out with this other guy. I don't jnow what to do. Im so depressed and sad. I think about the new guy everyday and i want to hang out with him but he does not like me. Im so stupid i know. I just can't move on from him. He's like a drug.

[Tina]

You are the one responsible for your problem. You know he doesn't like you, so why would you want to force yourself on someone that don't like you. You will be doing yourself more harm than good if you keep thinking about him.

I'll suggest you get him off your mind because it will do you a lot of good.

[Richard]

You don't love the guy that loves you but rather loves the guy that doesn't love you. Why are you hurting yourself? You need to cut off the relationship with the new guy, he's only using you to satisfy his sexual desire.

[bdog]

I realize that you are conflicted. Unlike the others who tried to help, I don't think there is a simple answer to your situation. I have compulsions that I don't like either. Like you, I continue to do things that are selfish and probably don't serve my best interests, It is not easy to be something you're not.

I guess I don't have any advice. But I hope I have offered some validation to your feelings.