Having relations with a woman soon to be married and has 2 kids

[ComonG92]

I’m having relations with a woman soon to be married and she has kids. What do I do? I really like her but I have a girlfriend. Need suggestions please. Thanks

[Bill]

If you have a girlfriend, then you don't need a woman who has two kids. It's better to be with a single woman than a single mom.

You will be making a big mistake if you decide to date her.

[Sofia]

Follow your heart, you heart wont lie to you. What matters is your happiness.

[bdog]

I don't know about that. If his heart did lie to him, I don't think it would be the first time a human's heart has lied to it's host. On the other hand, I think it is a fair response, which might be translated, "whatever floats your boat", but in a friendly way.

I think the first reply was offered within the context of the recently and geographically limited accepted (within the context of human history) expectation of monogamy. The guy is getting a little on the side. Why? Because he can and because males are wont to do that. I'm not saying that it is the most likely path to happiness, but apparently it is who he is.

In a case like this, a simple "Just do this" type answer is not very helpful IMHO. I think people facing a conundrum who come to a forum like this are looking for others who will explore ideas with them, not just throw out halt thought out answers. But what do I know? If I knew it all, I wouldn't have been drawn to this site.