She won't dress up for me, but will when going out....

[TheDarkOne]

Myself and my girlfriend have been living together for almost two years now. For fun I asked her to wear makeup, hair down and to wear a dress I find her really sexy in. (This was for bedroom fun). She did wear the dress but didn't do anything else. Fine with me! Yet when she was on a stressful time during her period she blurted it all out that I don't like her as she is but just want a whore who I can do what I like to. After I had calmed her down I said it was fine not to and I'd never ask again if it made her uncomfortable. Here's the kicker.... She went out to one of her friends 40th Birthday parties. It was an overnight stay with a few other friends. She wore exactly what I'd asked her too. Hair down, makeup on and the sexy dress. What gives? Am I missing something?

[Sofia]

I think she said that to you because she was paranoid. Also, she probably might have said that because you don't ask her to do that often, so she felt you asked her to do that because you don't find her attractive.

[Brett]

It's normal for women to act this way. I think you should bring it to her consciousness that she was dressed as you told her to. Whatever her response, let her know that you love her the way she is but you only want her look good.

[tion]

It's normal for women to act this way. I think you should bring it to her consciousness that she was dressed as you told her to. Whatever her response, let her know that you love her the way she is but you only want her look good.

I think so too

[TheDarkOne]

Thanks all! Advice greatly appreciated!