She's still mad at me. What should I do?

[brucemiller88]

I need to fix what has been done wrong for the past week. I am the reason why my girlfriend has been very cold to me since that event. This also means that I need to gain her trust again. It might be a hard thing to do but I won’t waste the chance of being the best guy for her. I’ve read a lot of articles regarding second chances, and so far, they are inspiring. I think I should give my best shot in winning her side again. What else can I do? Please tell me.

[TheDarkOne]

Depends on what was done and how your GF sees it.

[Peggy]

How do you get your ex-girlfriend back? If you'd like to mend your last break-up, first things first -- DON'T follow your emotions, or you'll NEVER get her back! Here are the RIGHT ways to mend a break-up and get your ex-girlfriend back for good.

What If She's Still Mad At You?

In the weeks following a break-up, it's easy to be emotional. And following your emotions is a good thing when times are good in your relationship. But when times are bad, and when she's mad at you, it's best to put your emotions aside for a while, and approach the problem in a logical way.

If she's still mad at you after the break-up, it's best not to push the issue. Instead, as hard as it may sound, focus on yourself for at least a few weeks. Pick up the pieces and get your life back into order. You'll want her to miss you, and you can't do that if you keep contacting her and begging her back!

What If She's Already Over You?

One of the biggest problem with break-ups is that she can get over you quickly. When she's already over you, don't beg her back no matter what! Your goal is to try to bury the hatchet, build bridges, and be friends again with her.

When you beg, it tells her that she made the right decision in leaving you. But when you take the break-up like a man, and show enough maturity to be friends with her again, she might reconsider her options. And if she decides that whatever caused the break-up was just an ugly coincidence, she might consider coming back to you!

What If She Already Found Another Man?

Normally, women will miss you within one month of no proper communication. But if she finds another boyfriend within that month, what does it mean? Simple -- she's on a rebound relationship, and it normally won't last long unless she went back with another ex-boyfriend of hers.

When this happens, it's best to get on with your life. Trying to drive a wedge between them will only make you look like a loser, and -- you guessed it -- no woman wants a loser. It's best to let the rebound relationship run its course, and when it fails, she just might ask you back.