man withdrawal for many days

[Ayat suliman]

How do you people understanad the witgrawal of man for many days and coming back again saying that you didnt ask about him?
i used to not chase him when he withdraw and maybe he needs time to be alone or have load at work.but he blame me and see my action as ignoring....
how you see that????

[bdog]

Is there a way to put a positive spin on this? I find that when I try to blame the other person for conflict or disagreement that I don't gain anything. Can you try to see the good in the fact that both you and he want to see each other? I'm just brainstorming.

[Kate]

I think you should try to check up on him the next time he withdraws to see if he gives you attention. If he doesn't, then don't do it again.

[Jerome]

He was expecting you to chase him, and so you proved him wrong by doing otherwise. Well, that's the best way to act when he withdraws, it puts you in control.