military guy gf problems

[jackropot]

Firstly, Hello Everyone

I have been having lots of questions about a problem I have for nearly 3 years and now I am going mad so I am seeking any advice I can have. Firstly let me explain my situation 3 years ago I was assigned as a commander to a foreign special forces unit, I am still in the private military contractors.My job is to train this special forces unit and we receive onsite jobs from various countries and execute them. My goal for this entire situation was a hope of building a future for my friends family.Now I am leading my own unit and created my own company and generate enough income to last myself for a lifetime including my friends.Now to the girl mattter, I met a girl through friend although she had bad relationship with her boyfriend we were sudenly attracted to each other.Then one night I suddenly to be open with myself and her so I came forth and the result was amazing and destine like.She returned my feeling soon she broke up with the boyfriend and we started dating and I have never loved anyone In my life before like this.However when I started this line of work I was very weak compared to now.I didnt know a lot of things with military and personal areas.Then a time came I had some problems with work and I knew they would hurt her to get to me so, I told her I didnbt love her and broke up, by doing so I literally saved her and my life.I always wanted to undo it but I knew I had to train like hell till the day I would able to get her an amazing future as well as having my unit get better so we could withstand anthing so this would never happen. Now I am the highest ranking officer, and my unit is in a different league compared to the years as well perrsonally.Now I know me alone would be enough to protect her.But now I also have the power the give her a future she deserves.But my betrayal cost her trust so she betrayed her friends too.I know as a human what I did was unacceptable and to me I will never forgive myself but as a pro I know it was the right call to make sure she lives.Now I wanna get back to her and I am lost.By the way my specific title is being in charge of war strategies and analysis as well as combat. So anallysis I see success rate at 0.2 eprcent so I just wondered emotionally what do you guys simply think what do you suggest? I am also truly sorry to bug everyone with my issues.Thank you even if no one responds.

[Julia]

It's going to be hard for her to accept you back. Anyways, you might want to try to apologize to her.

However, the best way to do this is to find a mutual friend who will help you tell her you want her back and that you still love her. After the mutual friend conveys this message to her, you can then appear in the scene and sincerely apologize. You might want to go on your knees to apologize if you can.

Good luck!

[Malvin]

When a man dumps his girlfriend and it's obvious that she still very much loves him, he's faced with having to deal with her emotions. What many men do is they just shut their girlfriend out. They refuse to take her calls and they ignore any text messages or emails that she sends. In essence, they make her feel as though her emotions just don't matter. If you did this, you need to start your quest to get her back by apologizing. Not only should you be apologizing for your behavior after the break up, but you need to make amends for the break up itself too. Let her know that you are deeply sorry and that you realize what a huge mistake you've made. Don't be surprised if she doesn't accept your apology immediately. She's hurt. Give her some time.

Your next step to get her to give you another chance is to talk to her about being friends. Don't automatically jump into a dialogue about how you'd be a better boyfriend if she would just take you back. That will overwhelm her and you don't want to do that. She needs to feel that you're not putting any pressure on her. She's going to be very mindful of protecting her heart from you, so don't be shocked if she's a bit standoffish or cold to you.

Instead, just let her know that you miss her and you'd enjoy keeping in touch. Most women are open to this and they appreciate the gesture. You need to act like a good friend during this time. Be kind, friendly and very supportive. Let her know that you're there if she ever needs a hand with anything. She'll come to see you as someone she can depend on and that will help lay the foundation for you two to try your romance again down the line.