Girlfriend of ten years and mother of my son. But I hate her.

[Spiller2006]

So in a nutshell,

i have been been in a relationship with the mother of my child for 10years. Not due to the child we genuinely loved each other. About 2 years into the relationship sex became an issue. She didn’t want to do what I wanted to do and didn’t like the things I liked. I thought fine everyone is different. She told me she hates the chase for sex. She hates when I seem to be trying to get sex because everything I do even if I’m just being nice it comes across as me trying to get sex. I thought fair enough. She requested that I wait until she approach me for sex otherwise I shouldn’t. I obviously thought is she not into me and all that but she proved that wrong at the time and we move on. Then about a year later of me not trying to have sex with her, and doing it when she wants, which was sometimes twice a week to once in 3 months. She said again she wants me to stop trying to do other things during sex. I am very freaky I get primal sometimes and my hands go places maybe they shouldn’t aka her ass or her mouth. But she didn’t like that I thought fine. It’s not for everyone, but I thought maybe she just need to get abit more comfortable with sex. So I bought her a box full of sex toys chosen by her online it was fun thought the flare was coming back but she used them twice in total. All expensive stuff not being used when I ask if she use them when I’m away she always says no I encourage her to use them when I’m not around because it’s for her to get comfortable. But nothing. I just wanted a peaceful life and by then she wanted a child so I thought things mite change. Things didn’t change during pregnancy blamed it on the pregnancy and moved on. After the pregnancy things looked up she was being sexy and it was good. Still couldn’t touch what I want or fuck when I want but when I got it, it was ok. But that didn’t last more than 2 months then it was back to routine. I tried to change it tried to see if she would understand my needs but she didn’t like it we argued for weeks and it just ended unresolved. Now this is what sex is, once or twice a month, I get in from work talk about our day and she randomly goes I wana have sex tonight so shower before bed. I say ok I shower get to bedroom she normally looks sleeping try to speak no answer, I go on my phone start playing a game or something. Then I feel the hand she sucks or play with it until it’s hard as soon as it is she just on top rides for a little orgasm and then ask me how long I’m going to take then gets of lie on her side in spoons and then wait for me to finish. I deeply hate it but when I try to talk about it nothing changes. I hate the lack of any control and I hate her as a person but I’m stuck forever resentful. But I refuse to let my son be brought up in a single parent home.


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[David]

If you want to make your woman want more sex, you will definitely want to stick around and read this. Here is how you can go from an average loser to absolutely amazing in the bedroom. Just remember, you WILL get what you wish for. Some women's sexual drives have been known to wear the man out completely. So if you do this, just make sure you're ready for it.

How to Make Her Want More Sex - 3 Natural Tips For Better Sex (This is So Easy!)

1. Engage Her Emotions

By now you should know that women are highly emotional beings. If you want her to have an increased sexual attraction for you, then you need to engage her on an intense emotional level.

This is what some couples refer to as getting the 'spice' back in their relationship.

Each time you are out with her, it should be your goal to put her on an emotional roller coaster. This will amp up the sexual tension between the two of you. By the end of the night, all she'll want to do is jump into bed to relieve that tension.

2. Give Her What She Wants

I have never met a woman who has not completely loved getting oral sex. Now, I realize this can be a daunting task depending on the woman and her hygiene habits.

But if you can, give her oral sex. This is the only time where you can build her orgasm from multiple places (making them 2 to 3 times more intense).

3. Last Longer

If you have a weak sexual stamina, it is absolutely vital that you work on improving this more than anything else.

One orgasm is simply not enough for most women. You need to last as long as she wants so that you may fulfill her sexual appetite.

[Sofia]

Women are quite fascinating and they never fail to entertain our imagination. Especially when it comes to sex. Making love with a woman is definitely a way to show intimacy and absolute physical connection that's why it can be quite a challenge to the male species to satisfy their females --- getting turned on may be something normal to men while it's something that needs to be prepared for with women. Now, I'm not saying that satisfying a woman is next to impossible (although a great number of them would confess to that fact) but you need to realize that making a woman peak sure is a great achievement and it adds up to your big male ego. So without further foreplay, below are the five secrets about making love --- learn it and make her have sex with you more!

• Get her in the mood. This may come as a surprise to you but did you know that a good conversation turns a woman on? That's correct --- getting mentally stimulated is one sure fire way to make a woman in the mood for sex. That's why it pays to be a smart guy who knows how to carry the conversation well. So go out there and strike a conversation --- but skip your pick up lines please.
• Take it nice and easy. Rushing a woman to do something she's not prepared to do is a definite no-no --- you're ruining your slightest chance to be with a girl! One thing that turns a girl off big time is when a guy comes in too strong. Sure, you got super confidence but you might want to hit on the brakes slowly. She needs room to breathe.
• Prepare for a long foreplay. Women love foreplay. In fact, that's their prime motivation when it comes to sex. While men indulge to foreplay for sex, women would have sex for the foreplay --- that alone can satisfy them. So never skip on this --- treat to one lone tortorous foreplay and she'll be one wild chick in bed for more sex.
• Whisper to her. Getting naughty is nice and women love it when you keep whispering sweet nothings to their ear during sex. It add elevation and spice to lovemaking. Dirty talking is a very sizzling add-on to sex that's why you need to make extra effort to communicate --- even moans and groans are a big help.
• Go for a second round. Ever wondered why women love to cuddle right after sex? It's because once you peaked, they're already heated up and prepared for a second spill of orgasm that's why you better be all geared up for round two. Women are capable of mutltiple orgasms that's why you need to spar on that one. Good luck!