Advice needed - New Flat - Relationship and addicted to a new person

[Jayde]

Dear Community,

by googling for similar topics I found this forum and hope to find some open ears and maybe some advice as well.
This is my situation:
My and my girlfriend are both 23.
Since 2 years we are living in a more or less happy relationship with each other.
Unfortunately, we had to live in a long distance relationship for the last months because I had to move to a different country because of education and work.
She will follow me in a few months because of the same reasons.
We decided to look for properties to rent so we can live together on the one side but also to save costs in an expensive city.
We found something where we could imagine to live together, signed the contract for the next 6 months and are looking forward to this new adventure.
I will move to our new flat in a few days and my girlfriend will move in 2 months the latest.

Everything seemed to be happy until I met another woman.
It started with a sympathetic conversation, a small flirt but now I feel that it is getting more and more serious.
Although I have still strong feelings for my current girlfriend, I am starting to criticise the idea of living together....but ironically I am also looking forward to it.
Nevertheless, I am still feeling young and independent who would like to discover life and emotions.
I can´t tell if the new woman will play a bigger role in my life yet (we are just sharing the last weeks with each other and it feels good and exciting, except the fact that I am already in a relationship and my mind and values are compressing me) but I know that she activated the idea that I might be not ready to share a flat with my girlfriend.
Maybe our relationship is also not the relationship it was before and I am missing something? Or why am I interested in other women?
My mind and my values are telling me that I am committed staying with her, maybe because I am also scared of the consequences (we already signed the contract)
and I don´t want to hurt anybody.
I just know that I have to make a decision and either stop the idea of meeting this new woman, focus on my girlfriend and the new flat or live my life with my heart and not with my mind!?

What are your thoughts on this?

Thank you for your advices!
Best,
Jayde

[Clinton]

Or why am I interested in other women?

This makes you a MAN! All men have the instinct to be with as many women as possible. However, only men with self-control can stop this from happening.

My advice to you is that you must make use of your head and not your heart when it comes to dealing with women.

[Julia]

This new woman you just met will end up destroying you. You just met her and you aren't even sure of who she really is, so it will be unwise to dump your current girlfriend for her.

You already share something with your girlfriend, don't lose those things by letting your emotions mislead you.

So, you must stop seeing the other woman at once, and stick to your current girlfriend.

Remember, all relationships have it's ups and downs.

[Jayde]

Thank you for your honesty, guys!