What should I do?

[Onquestion2018]

I am in love with a close friend. I've known him forever (probably since we were 6). We were always close friends and been through a lot but I had never felt any strong emotion for him. We are both in our mid 20s now and we begun seeing each other more often since about 2 months ago. He has been helping me to overcome a diffucult situation and we have strengthen our bond. I am sure he loves me as a friend and he is there for me. The problem is that I am falling in love with him and I am developing really strong emotions. He has no idea and I have managed to limit contact and act naturally. He is married and I know he doesn't love me the same way. It is hurting like hell because I want to be with him all the time and I am constantly thinking about him. However me wanting to be with him and having him in my life even as a good friend outweighs the pain. Also he has been really sweet and I have never felt this way for anyone before. Physical attraction is not very strong (don't get me wrong, he is very hot) but it is mainly emotional. I could just lay next to him for the rest of my life and I would be fine

[Julia]

Since this friend of yours is married, it's best you get rid of those feelings immediately.

The fact is that if you keep developing these feelings, you will eventually get yourself hurt.

[Bradwin]

I know exactly how you feel about him, I have experienced this. However, your feelings for him is going to destroy your friendship with him because he is already married.

So, I will advice you stop frequent contact with him because that's the only way to cut off these strong feelings for him.