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Exciting new girl at workplace vs 7 yrs relationship with my girlfriend
Friends, i badly need some pep talk right now because im very confused of my situation. Im new to this site and am really bothered so thats why i was trying to search for sites like this.
I am 23 yrs old right now and already working at a company for 1 yr already.
I have a crush on someone inside the work place for quite some time. She also likes me when we started to flirt with each other. She had a boyfriend but they broke at some time in january.
We started to communicate with each other like starting last year when we had an 'eye magnet' at each other so to think that she still had his boyfriend. I also have a girlfriend in fact my girlfiend and i has been dating for 7 years already so shes like my high school crush that became my girlfriend at 1st level of college and up until now.
The problem is that i continued to flirt with this other girl because she was very pretty and the feeling of liking a new girl who is very pretty and beautiful and having the feeling also that she likes you also so we continued to have our flirty chats and texts with each other even though she knew i have a girlfriend and our relationship has gone leveled up like everytime we had an opportunity to go home together i would take her home and when we get to their place we continue to talk to each other and eventually kiss but no intercourse. These moments happened just last month up untol now when my work was at 3rd shift so my duty was at 10pm to 6am then hers would be 7pm to 6am so i have an opportunity to take her home with my car.
She understands that i have a girlfriend but still we kiss torridly with each other but still no intercouse just soft touch to sensitive areas because she is not that fully open (thank heavens).
On my part i dont know if im inloved with this new girl who gives me excitement and happiness because just yesterday i think she decided to let go of her feelings for me and like end the relationship (she always does that by the way) like letting me know that she does not want anymore of this but like hours later of texting she flirts with me again and i would be happy and flirt with her again. So while we were in that moment again of her giving up the relationship i was feeling very hurt and i wanted to cry to her and say that can we at least give it another chance? But too late because she already blocked me in the communications we use. Later this day we will also see each other at the workplace her duty is from 6am to 5pm and mine would be at 2pm to 10pm.
I want you to know that what i imagine when i get to work already is that i dont want her to see me so that she'll miss and communicate with me again. Im very selfish right? To think that i still have my girlfriend yet still choose to have involved with this new and exciting secret relationship i have with my co worker. As of this moment i am still hoping that she would text me
your opinion guys? Ill take whatever you tell me just so that i can bear with the heavines in my heart.
My other problem is that, do i still love my current girlfriend? I get also the problem when my girlfriend asks me if when will we get married or will i marry her and all i can say is time will tell. Very selfish of me but she already knows and understands taht i am not yet settled for her like she knows that there will be an opportunity some day that we will break up and never get our lives together as family.
I am 23 yrs old right now and already working at a company for 1 yr already.
I have a crush on someone inside the work place for quite some time. She also likes me when we started to flirt with each other. She had a boyfriend but they broke at some time in january.
We started to communicate with each other like starting last year when we had an 'eye magnet' at each other so to think that she still had his boyfriend. I also have a girlfriend in fact my girlfiend and i has been dating for 7 years already so shes like my high school crush that became my girlfriend at 1st level of college and up until now.
The problem is that i continued to flirt with this other girl because she was very pretty and the feeling of liking a new girl who is very pretty and beautiful and having the feeling also that she likes you also so we continued to have our flirty chats and texts with each other even though she knew i have a girlfriend and our relationship has gone leveled up like everytime we had an opportunity to go home together i would take her home and when we get to their place we continue to talk to each other and eventually kiss but no intercourse. These moments happened just last month up untol now when my work was at 3rd shift so my duty was at 10pm to 6am then hers would be 7pm to 6am so i have an opportunity to take her home with my car.
She understands that i have a girlfriend but still we kiss torridly with each other but still no intercouse just soft touch to sensitive areas because she is not that fully open (thank heavens).
On my part i dont know if im inloved with this new girl who gives me excitement and happiness because just yesterday i think she decided to let go of her feelings for me and like end the relationship (she always does that by the way) like letting me know that she does not want anymore of this but like hours later of texting she flirts with me again and i would be happy and flirt with her again. So while we were in that moment again of her giving up the relationship i was feeling very hurt and i wanted to cry to her and say that can we at least give it another chance? But too late because she already blocked me in the communications we use. Later this day we will also see each other at the workplace her duty is from 6am to 5pm and mine would be at 2pm to 10pm.
I want you to know that what i imagine when i get to work already is that i dont want her to see me so that she'll miss and communicate with me again. Im very selfish right? To think that i still have my girlfriend yet still choose to have involved with this new and exciting secret relationship i have with my co worker. As of this moment i am still hoping that she would text me
your opinion guys? Ill take whatever you tell me just so that i can bear with the heavines in my heart.My other problem is that, do i still love my current girlfriend? I get also the problem when my girlfriend asks me if when will we get married or will i marry her and all i can say is time will tell. Very selfish of me but she already knows and understands taht i am not yet settled for her like she knows that there will be an opportunity some day that we will break up and never get our lives together as family.
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