Relationship

[Hannah]

I’m working as a coach, visiting different offices of my clients. At one of the site there was a guy and I could not understand what happened here. There are ~20 guys at the office and I had a chance to talk to almost all of them, but not him. There were business meetings, informal catch ups, at least Hi from and to each of them. I even made a list of qq that might ask, but never did it. Almost each day he was sitting near me and watching for a couple of hours, but he never even said hi. At the last of my working day, when the guy heard this, I noticed that he started to pass by more often and closer, but again - no word at all. Just an interesting situation in view of relationship and I might come back to his office in a couple of weeks and just wondering where should we go from there? And what would be better for me to do?

[David]

There is a skill you must master if you want to make guys attracted to you and have them approach you. It's called irresistibility. If you possess this skill, you will naturally attract any guy towards you instantaneously.

Here are the secrets to being an irresistible woman and having guys approach you...

Look the prettiest - The way you look also matters to an extent although it isn't the only factor when it comes to attraction. Looking good helps you draw attention towards yourself. Once you can get the attention, you can work the magic and make them feel attracted to you. So having good looks is essential. Don't be lazy about your looks. Take care of every aspect - your clothing, your colors, your hair, your legs, and your weight. It's crucial. But make sure that you don't expose yourself too much.

Get to know more people - Believe it or not, the number of people who know you and like you matters when it comes to attracting guys. If five guys are ogling at you and another cute guy comes around, he can't help but feel attraction for you. That's how humans work. We rely on other people's opinion to make our judgments. And the best part is we are not even aware of it. Use that to manipulate your man and make him attracted to you. Win the attention and admiration of many people by getting to know them. Practice makes you perfect.

Keep smiling and having fun - Almost every guy is attracted to a woman who can smile and have fun. He doesn't have to approach you. You can approach him as well and start a normal conversation with him. But just don't reveal your intentions to him. Act cool and trick him into thinking whether you're interested or not.

Start a conversation with him, flirt with him, touch him and then leave him for a while to talk to some other guy. After some time, return back to him and go talk to someone else. This will make him wonder whether you like him or not. The more he wonders, the more he will feel attracted to you. Make some jokes and tease him in your conversations. It's important for the two of you to have fun. If there's no fun, there will be no attraction.

[Sofia]

To succeed in meeting and dating men, it is important to be more approachable to guys. If men will find you hard to approach, they might just walk away even if you seem interesting. Do not let the chance of meeting someone just pass you by, here are some tips to be more approachable to men.

Dress well and always look good. Most guys can't resist to approach women who look good. It doesn't take long for a guy to scan the crowd in a room to recognize the woman who is worth approaching. While most women tend to fall into fashion hypes, tend to dress alike and try to look sexy, setting yourself apart from these women by learning how to dress well and create your own sense of style can help you stand out. Do not try to look sexy but focus on how to flatter your best physical features by choosing the right clothes. Remember that you don't have to reveal too much if you do not want to send the wrong message and get the attention of men who just want a quick one night stand. To be more approachable to guys, it is best to look good and visually pleasing to guys.

Don't appear too busy. You want to meet and attract guys so leave the books at home and don't be too occupied with your phone. Don't appear too busy that guys might think twice approaching you. If you are too occupied, you might miss the chance to glance at him and make eye contact. If you are with a group of friends and you feel someone stealing glances at you and seem want to approach you, walk away for a few minutes and give him opportunities to approach you. Do not be too occupied to be more approachable to guys.

Use eye contact. Exchanging eye contact and a few stolen glimpses can help send a message without saying a single word. When you caught someone staring at you every now and then and he seem really interesting, build eye contact. Lock eyes for a few second and immediately look down or look away and smile. Most men find women who are willing to exchange glances more approachable. Be careful not to overdo it because he may think that you are too easy.

Avoid going out with a big group of friends or hang out with your guy friends. If you want a guy to approach you, do not make it too hard for him. Be more accessible if you want to be more approachable to guys. Guys will not approach you if you keep hanging out with your guy friends. Being with a big group of friends can be intimidating for any guy to approach you. It is easier if you are alone or with just one girl friend when going out. Of course, you are old enough to know where and when you can spend time alone and get the chance to be approached by guys without jeopardizing your safety. Bookstores, coffee shops are ideal safe places.

Smile. Flash your megawatt smile and be friendly to the people around you. Do not underestimate the power of smile. It is an infectious behavior that can draw people towards you. Be nice and friendly to be more approachable to guys. Don't be rude but be warm, nice and friendly to everyone around you. A smile is the best way to start a friendly atmosphere with people around you. A smile is an infectious behavior that can infect every person around you. Smile more to be more approachable to guys.

Don't try too hard. Don't embarrass yourself and push it too far. You have to know that you can be approachable without appearing too easy and you do not have to do outrageous things just to be approached. Some guys are just not interested and some don't have the guts to make the first move.

[Pinky Kumar]

How to be more approachable to guys without appearing easy:

#1 Look good!To a guy, approaching a girl is all about first appearances. When a guy walks into a room, it takes him less than a few glances to make up his mind on whether he wants to approach a girl or not.

#2 Eye contact Glance at him now and then, and make eye contact occasionally. But at the same time, don’t get too carried away and try to catch his eye all the time. He may just think you’re too easy and not care.

#3Smile. Appear warm and friendly, and your chances of getting approached by guys would rise multifold.

#4 Show him you’re interested. Let him know that you’re interested in getting to know him better.

#5 Don’t be bored. Have fun and be positive no matter where you are. Positivity draws positivity. And a happy girl draws happy guys who love their life.

[Beileyken]

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