So I had a strong liking to this girl where I work. She was beautiful in my eyes. To me, she was my type physically in every way. The appealing thing to me was the way she carried herself or her physical traits just made her seem so ladylike and a good woman. To me, she seemed innocent and very much to herself or not much of a party girl. She is a light skin curly but long haired Latina. I was ready to make the move because the first part was done, I was 100% attracted and could see myself with her and possibly a future? I was going to get to know her but before I did I asked my friend a simple question. Is she wifey material, a true lady? He laughed and told me I'm sorry man but I don't think she's good for you because she is kinda slutty because she told me and my friend one time that she had a threesome. She even described how it was in detail. Basically talking like she was proud of it. At that point, I felt relieved that I didn't waste my time but at the same time very disappointed and just very sad. And this isn't the first girl I found out about something like this. I know it's no big deal but it just raises so many questions. Why do most girls have no self-respect?
Are there any women left who have good morals. I mean to me I just couldn't be with someone even if they said they changed but had a bad history like that. I wouldn't want to be with someone knowing they did some crazy stuff, or something demoralizing. I feel like many people don't care about it and make it seem it's just a young person thing. But I'm different from most people. My philosophy is that you aren't going to hire the person who went to jail 10 times or does drugs etc. for a very important job instead hire the respectful and honest individual. The person may say they are a changed person but down the line what will we expect? We can't afford a second chance either because the job is very important and therefore there can't be a screwup perhaps very minor ones but not major. Anyway am I the only guy left who believes and cares about a women's a self-worth? Are there any girls left in this world like that? It is sad seeing such beautiful girls who just don't treat themselves right.
:'(
Are there any women left who have good morals. I mean to me I just couldn't be with someone even if they said they changed but had a bad history like that. I wouldn't want to be with someone knowing they did some crazy stuff, or something demoralizing. I feel like many people don't care about it and make it seem it's just a young person thing. But I'm different from most people. My philosophy is that you aren't going to hire the person who went to jail 10 times or does drugs etc. for a very important job instead hire the respectful and honest individual. The person may say they are a changed person but down the line what will we expect? We can't afford a second chance either because the job is very important and therefore there can't be a screwup perhaps very minor ones but not major. Anyway am I the only guy left who believes and cares about a women's a self-worth? Are there any girls left in this world like that? It is sad seeing such beautiful girls who just don't treat themselves right.
:'(
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