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I dated/flirted with this guy last year, he is my co worker, we had a group camping last year, I barely know him and he tried to get close to me, but i was inlove with someone else before, after that camping we were back to our usual work in the office, sometimes he will greet me in the hallway, asked me to go to lunch with his friends, he randomly texted me, i don't give meaning of it until.one day, a day before valentines day last year, He asked me out, but since i see him as a regular friend, i don't give meaning on it, and according to our officemates he never had a gf becauae he is a shy guy and he have a lot of priorities in life, he is an ambitious man btw, so yeah, he treated me to dinner and watched movies, it was fine but he didn't brought me home and just texted me sorry because he was so tired he has another work to attend earlier, i don't took it serioulsy becauase for me we are just friends, and then there was another date, and some dates he cancelled it, because he was busy with his other jobs, sometimes he will text me out of nowhere, give me somethings, and then i was transferred in another department,he still texted me and then i was so confused becauase it was almost 6 months and we are like just flirting on and off, asking me for a date and cancelled it. Saying sweet things, and he become busy with his 2 jobs and providing for his siblings, and I become cold to him, because i was hurt and confused if what the heck he wants, we had an unfinished business, now I will meet him at the wedding of my brother and he is invited because he is a close friend of my brother's fiancee and the worst part is he will sit with me and my family, because he knows no one except me and the bride and my sister in law to be wants him to be comfortable and she knows i know him, i don't know if i will tell her if she can look for another table for him or i will let him sit with us and pretend nothing happened as if he did not ghosted me or should i open up what really happened between us like what was that dude?!oh btw he greeted me on my bday last month and said sorry for everything he had done then disappeared again after that.
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