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    Hello,
    i am devastated after my boyfriend, of 2 years dumped me. I am trying to clear my head on if I did something wrong or not and if this is considered cheating as my ex explained why he left me.

    i received a text message from a girlfriend of mine with photos of her and all of these different celebrities: Aaron Rogers, Ben Higgins, Larry The Cable Guy and others. Here she was at a celebrity gold outing. Well I stupidly, I guess, told her to give Ben Higgins my number...

    My boyfriend had trust issues with me even thought he was the love of my life and I never did anything but show him. Anyways, my boyfriend went through my phone while I was in the shower. He read all of the messages between me and my friend and told me I was cheating.
    To me, this was so unrealistic because He is a celebrity that would never contact me and I would never meet him. I was a little excited that a celebrity might get my number even though reality was he would never call. Who wouldn’t do that for giggles. Well, she didn’t give him my number and I don’t believe this was cheating. I mean if it was “Joe Blow” from the street that I would actually meet and talk with I would feel differently. What if I told her to give it to Aaron Rogers, would it have been different? Come on, it was a celebrity for golly sakes.

    My boyfriend, now my ex, will not even speak to me over this and is never coming back. I’m so devistated and am not a cheater. I can’t seem to stop crying for days now.

    Over all of this, am I a cheater?

    Thank you

    Running Tears

  • #2
    Originally posted by Runningtears
    told her to give Ben Higgins my number...
    This doesn't make you a cheater, but makes him believe you can cheat on him. Hence, he lost trust for you.

    If your ex boyfriend has made the decision to dump you, he is probably playing with your weakness. He is well aware of the fact that you do not want to break up with him and you still love him deeply.

    What this means is that your ex boyfriend can easily take advantage of the situation. He can fool around and date other women, yet he is not afraid of losing you. This is because you have put yourself in a lower psychological position.

    If that is happening to you, you need to ask yourself why.

    Is it because of the way you portray yourself?

    Perhaps you have been showing signs of desperation?

    Are you calling him too often?

    Are you calling him again and again?

    Do you think about him all the time?

    Are you always waiting for him to call you?

    Are you always thinking about what to say when he does call you?

    If your answer is yes to most of the questions above, it means that you are showing signs of desperation.

    When a woman is too desperate, she will not be able to win her boyfriend back. In fact, she may push her boyfriend further away. Your boyfriend is going to take you for granted since he knows he will be able to get back together with you if he chooses to do so.

    Controversial Tactics to Get Your Boyfriend Back

    A lot of women made the mistake of trying harder in order to get their boyfriend back. Unfortunately, trying harder is not going to work. It is only going to boost your boyfriend's ego and he is probably not going to take you seriously.

    So what you should do is to complete opposite of what you feel like doing. Instead of trying harder, you should stop trying instead!

    What you should do is to cut off all contact with your boyfriend. This is also known as the 'No Contact Rule'.

    Do not underestimate the effectiveness of this tactic. There are women who managed to get back together with their boyfriend once they started using this tactic.

    The reason why this tactic can be so effective is because you are changing the entire situation. Suddenly, your boyfriend realized that you are not so available after all.

    There is a saying that 'the fear of loss is usually greater than the pleasure of gain'. Due to the fear of losing you, your boyfriend may suddenly become the one who is chasing you instead.

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    • #3

      Asking your friend to give your number to another guy while in a committed relationship is bad, and even worst when it's a celebrity. Let me ask you a question, will you be happy if you see your boyfriend asking a girl for her phone number? I know this will drive you cray, so your boyfriend is definitely mad at you and he's suppose to be. I guess he broke up with you because he figured out he can never trust you anymore after doing that.

      However, I'll advice you give him space for at least 30 days to allow him calm down and get over what has happened. After this time, you can then reach out to him an apologize for what you have done. I believe he would be more open to reconciliation by then.

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