Feeling betrayed

[Danni]

Hi. I am looking for advice. I have been in my relationship for going on 7 years. Between the two of us we are raising 5 kids, developing some property we were lucky enough to get on land contract and striving to better ourselves. We have had extreme ups and downs but the past year has been so much better. For years we dealt with drug use but since getting and remaining sober most of the difficulties either disappeared or became much less difficult. The last couple weeks tho a lot has happened and I am seeing a lot of his old behaviors and tendencies resurface. He is on a program where he gets tested daily so I know it's not a relapse. Most recently he hung out with an old female 'friend' whom caused so many problems for us in the past. He knows that doing so would be seen as a betrayal, as we had long ago agreed that she was toxic and under no circumstances would it be appropriate to be around her. Not only did he hang out with her but he became very angry that it upset me like it did and blrd me for causing myself so much pain. I'm so torn and hurt. I don't know what to do.

[Brett]

Not only did he hang out with her but he became very angry that it upset me like it did and blrd me for causing myself so much pain.

I will suggest you let go of whatever has happened between you and your spouse. Don't allow this other woman cause you to be unhappy in your marriage. Forget about our husbands reaction and move on.

[Camila]

Relationships is all about ups and downs and things like this is bound to occur every now and then. So, don't allow this woman destroy what you have with your man.