Stuck in a hard situation... need help?

[AlexIdgaf]

So i met this girl last year, we had a short relationship and i've got really attached to her. Therefore, we broke up cause she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship, so I told her I would wait cause i really love her. Now its been months and she recently told me that she developped feelings for another guy, but still have strong feelings for me, so she's stuck in this situation (so am I..) I just really don't know what should I do at this point, should I forget about her?

[Annaaaa]

She wants her Cake and eat it too is the case. It’s called being selfish..she likes that she gets the attention from you and that you’ll always be there. But she wants the freedom to also date other people, at the same time she wants to make sure you don’t go on and date other people. That’s what it sounds like to me lol

[lovefindsitsway]

Well, my friend it’s really a bad situation to be in… and the sad part is you cannot do anything about it. But I have a risky fix for this solution…please note it is risky. And anyways she is out of your league, so why not play a trick to get her an emotional trick. It works well sometimes, but also back fires in some cases.

You see she is still having strong feeling you and at the same time she has developed love like feelings for someone else. What you need to do is try to tell her that if you she loves that guy, she is free from your side and you don’t want to push her as love cannot be force and after telling this stuff avoid her for some time and see if she calls you back and most important thing don’t ever try to say bad things about the other guy she likes and don’t ever try to compare as this will spoil your image.

If she doesn’t call you in a week you call her quietly just to check and ask her if she is happy with him and you still miss her. Remember when you try to catch and get hold of something it always moves further away from you but if you let it go it will certainly come back to you and more so in your case she will think of you as a good human being.

Lastly, if this plan works fine and if not let her go as there’s no point with being with a girl who have mixed feelings for two guys. Sooner or later love triangle kind of relationships create problems.
So, my friend try this emotional trick and see what happens and you see it’s a simple trick you may have say this is something that you already know. But remember it’s the way you apply the trick makes the difference and not the knowledge of it.

Good Luck take care.