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Just wanted to share my story..I have been in my current relationship for a decade. Everything is fine, there’s no issue between us. At least that’s what we think. We haven’t had sex in over a year. Basically a sexless relationship. And strangely enough we are both ok with it. We don’t talk about it..we’re not the type that likes to talk about relationship. I think when it comes down to it, we are both so comfortable with each other that we don’t think about “issues” in a relationship. Not sure if that makes sense. I’ve been with this guy since I was super young. In a way we both grew up together. .. recently we moved to a new state. I’m finding myself thinking more and more about our relationship. There’s nothing wrong with it, maybe that’s the problem. I also hav have a confession...I have a crush on this guy at my work. Super guilty because I feel like I’m emotionally cheating. Although there is absolutely nothing going on. I keep it professional at work and everyone knows I have a boyfriend so everything is on the down low. I Had a feeling it was a mutual feeling but I guess I was wrong. That guy might have a new girlfriend. I overheard some things today but didn’t hear the whole thing so I’m not sure. Either way, the point is, I’m disappointed. A little sad. I thought this crush thing was temporary but it’s been on long enough. Sigh. Which makes me feel more guilty towards my boyfriend. The truth is I don’t think I’ll ever leave my boyfriend, only because it is such a big risk to leave something I’m comfortable and familiar with. We are too involved..I know his family and friends and vice versa. I feel lost. I don’t know what to think. Idk if this is normal. Any advice? Thoughts?
Just wanted to share my story..I have been in my current relationship for a decade. Everything is fine, there’s no issue between us. At least that’s what we think. We haven’t had sex in over a year. Basically a sexless relationship. And strangely enough we are both ok with it. We don’t talk about it..we’re not the type that likes to talk about relationship. I think when it comes down to it, we are both so comfortable with each other that we don’t think about “issues” in a relationship. Not sure if that makes sense. I’ve been with this guy since I was super young. In a way we both grew up together. .. recently we moved to a new state. I’m finding myself thinking more and more about our relationship. There’s nothing wrong with it, maybe that’s the problem. I also hav have a confession...I have a crush on this guy at my work. Super guilty because I feel like I’m emotionally cheating. Although there is absolutely nothing going on. I keep it professional at work and everyone knows I have a boyfriend so everything is on the down low. I Had a feeling it was a mutual feeling but I guess I was wrong. That guy might have a new girlfriend. I overheard some things today but didn’t hear the whole thing so I’m not sure. Either way, the point is, I’m disappointed. A little sad. I thought this crush thing was temporary but it’s been on long enough. Sigh. Which makes me feel more guilty towards my boyfriend. The truth is I don’t think I’ll ever leave my boyfriend, only because it is such a big risk to leave something I’m comfortable and familiar with. We are too involved..I know his family and friends and vice versa. I feel lost. I don’t know what to think. Idk if this is normal. Any advice? Thoughts?
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