I like a girl and this other guy also likes her? jealous?

[watersplash101]

Hi, I've known this girl for 11 months now, I like her on an intimate level but there's this guy who likes her as well. I've become jealous of this guy and feel hesitant now because he's taller than me (I'm 5'8-5'9, he's 5'11-6'), he's older than me (22? I'm 18), and it seemed like he had also begun to flirt with her, their profile picture is now couple like and the way they talk is couple-like as well. What should I do? I'm mostly jealous of the height part because it's something that I cannot improve on myself.

[Dating Dan]

You need to move faster bro, what have you been waiting for all this time?

[Anthony]

I think you need to first get rid of your inferiority complex. Don't for any reason think another guy is better than you or a girl will prefer another guy to you.

The fact is that girls don't choose guys based on height or looks, but on a guy's confident level. If you appear more confident and comic than the other guy, then she is going to pick you over him.

So, don't let any guy intimidate you, but rather you must be confident and courageous.

[Bradwin]

My advice to you is take the bold step now and approach her. Don't sit around and watch the other guy get her, while you wallow in depression.

Move now, don't delay!

[bunnyhabit]

is normal to be jealous. is abnormal to be non competitive. go after her strongly before too late. height is not a big deal over couple inches to most gals is unimportant